we FINALLY got insurance and switched providers to Kaiser Permanente. the KP hospital we are planning to go to has an 11% c-section rate and is known to be vbac supportive. after speaking with some relatives and friends, we have a few good referrals lined up for CNMs and OBs that are supportive of natural births and vbacs. one of the OBs recommended to us is even trying to get birth tubs in the birthing rooms for the hopital closest to us. i'm feeling alot more reassured now in the decisions we are making... thanks again for all the thoughtful replies.
i just found out that Netfilx is showing More Business Business of Being Born. it wasn't on there a couple of months ago, so Yay for Netflix!