I just want to thank you and everyone who posted here for this thread!
Jr'smom, I think I'm you two births ago. Based on the way my labors and subsequent c-sections progressed with my first two, I am highly doubtful that a VBA2C will work for me, yet, there^s still a part of me that feels compelled to try. However, there's also a strong part of me that questions whether a likely to fail attempt is in the best interest of the new baby, my family, or me.
I began doubting myself more with each c/s but honestly I think it's just the lack of GOOD support. I think it's virtually impossible to find GOOD support for natural birth whether it's ones first birth or a VBAC. I have found a wonderful group on FB and have learned so much there. Please join!
There are many women there from around the world (okay, mostly U.S., Canada, and Australia) who have had VBAMC. (Even several who have had VBA4C like me.) After all this time, I can't believe all the resources I was not aware of. And they are a really nice supportive community.
Mom to 5 amazing kids! (DS10, DS8, DD5, DD3 and DS1)
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