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#1 of 2 Old 03-02-2014, 02:58 PM - Thread Starter
 
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I have currently been in a new relationship for the last eight months and my bf and I both have daughters mine is eight and his is two!
For the past few weeks my bf and his mother have both expresses concerns about my daughter being that she doesn't listen, no respect for adults and she continually asks when said no also the bf mother thinks she takes over when the two year old is around (once every fortnight) and controls what they play etc. I have my daughter full time and her father is absent from her life! We definitely have a great relationship together however I feel really upset as a parent because it feels like a personal attack on myself as a parent. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!! Thanks
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I have no advice but this sounds like a sticky situation. It's easier when one is not involved as I feel like I would be" hey, I'm doing the best I can" it would be better if you could approach me this way... " " and when I hear this from you and your mother I feel like I am being attacked" also, it's easier for me to say, well, maybe this is indicative of what things would be like if you two were to get married or have children together with his mother being involved etc. But I know it is easier being on this end and I am sorry you are dealing with this.
Someone else may have some good advice here but I think you should copy paste and start a new thread in single parenting or talk amongst ourselves. Here are the links. Look around these forums too as someone may be in a similar situation .
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http://www.mothering.com/community/f/234/single-parenting

http://www.mothering.com/community/f/16/talk-amongst-ourselves
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