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#31 of 54 Old 10-23-2010, 06:38 AM
 
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First baby was rubbish (ok, the labour, not the baby). Induction, took 3 days to get going, 12 hours of labour after ROM, 1 hour of allowed pushing before ventouse. Baby was 7lb 2.

Second baby, hard labour, 12 hours, 3 hours pushing, baby 9lb 5, home birth.

Third baby, home birth, 7lb 6, 5 hour labour, 10-20 mins pushing.

BUT - first birth was traumatic, unnecessary induction, whoel thing was wrong, it felt wrong, it was wrong, it looked wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong.

Second birth I was TERRIFIED because of first birth, I believe this impacted the second labour.

Third birth, I was all by myself, relaxed and able to go with the flow and I reckon that made things a lot easier.

So, I am not sure whether you can really judge anything from my experiences lolol. I mean, lots of things were different. First and second births I didn't exercise, I gained A LOT of weight, like 6-7 stone each pregnancy where as in the third pregnancy, I exercised and only gained 4 stone. I ate better in the third pregnancy (thing is, no matter how much I exercise and no matter how healthy I eat, I am still a big gainer).
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#1 - 1.5 hours and 10 minutes pushing at 40 weeks exactly. 6 lb 14 oz
#2 - 6 hours and less than a minute pushing at 37 weeks (induced on an unfavorable cervix). 6 lb 15 oz

#3 - I'll let ya know in a few months

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DS: 6lb 2oz. Labor started at 9ish am, hard and fast from the beginning, born around 7pm

DD: 6lb 2oz. Labor on and off from 4:30am - noon, then building harder and faster until born at 7pm.

However, DS was 2 1/2 hours of pushing, I did not want my waters broken, and mw was fine with it, they broke near the end.

With DD, pushing was like 10 minutes. After the first two pushes, I was convinced by my care provider that breaking my water would speed it up, and frankly, I did not want to go through 2 1/2 hours again of pushing again. So I said yes, and she was born two pushes later.

So, about the same, really. but i liked the pushing part of DD a LOT better.

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Not bigger and yes, much faster. Chiro and acupuncture helped a lot.
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Weight was about the same but 2nd labor was much shorter.

DD1 - 8lbs even - 21 hours of labor (8hrs active and 1 hour of pushing)

DD2 - 8lbs 3oz - 2 and 1/2 hours of labor from start to finish - my body pushed through 3 contractions

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First-
Pitocin birth-
7 hours hard labor, 1.5 hours pushing- 10 lbs, 5 oz

Second-
1.5 hours active labor, less than 30 min pushing- 9 lbs, 12 oz (I ran the entire pregnancy and gained about 20 lbs less.... I would have expected her to be smaller....)

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#1: 9lb 9 oz, about 10 hour labor, 2 pushes
#2: 9lb 14 oz, about 8 hour labor, 2 pushes
#3: 8lb 7 oz, 30 hour labor, 2 pushes

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Baby #1: 21 hr labor, 3 hrs of pushing (nuchal hand) 7lbs 5oz

Baby #2: 3 hr labor from start to finish, 15 mins pushing 8lbs exactly

So, bigger second baby, MUCH faster delivery. (more intense but faster)

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first baby was 8'1, active labour was nearly 8 hours. Second baby was 9'1, active labour was 4 hours. Third baby was 8'10, active labour was 2 hours. Pushing was short with all three (20 minutes or under) last baby was 2 minutes.

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First was 16 hours, about 1 1/2 hours of pushing, 8 lbs 9oz
Second was 1 1/2 hours of labor, no pushing (no, Im not kidding, i didn't push) 8lbs 4oz.

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ds1 was born at 41 weeks, 27 hour labor with 2 hours pushing. He was 7 lbs 13 oz and 20.5 inches.

ds2 was born at 39 weeks and 3 days, 24 hour labor with 1 hour pushing. He was 8 lbs and 21 inches.

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My 2nd was smaller and took longer. But the pushing was shorter. #1took 20 mins of pushing and #2 took 5 mins.

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No and Yes. First baby was bigger and second labor was shorter.

DD1 38w+4d. 11 hours of labor, a little over 1 hour pushing. 8lbs, 2oz.

DD2 38w+3d. Less than 4 hours of contractions, but water broke 36 hours before labor started. Baby was 6lbs, 14oz.

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1st- 7lb 14oz, 5 hour labor
2nd- 7lb 2oz, 11 hour labor
3rd- 6lb 3oz, 10 hour labor
4th- 6lb 2oz, 14 hour labor

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DS1: 38w4or5d, 44 hours of labor, no regular pattern of contractions achieved on my own, pitocin, epi that didn't really work, 2 1/2 hours of pushing, posterior presentation, 7 lbs 9 oz

DS2: 39w, 2 1/2 total hours of labor, woke up to contractions 3 mins apart, no time for any kind of pain relief, 5 mins of pushing, 6 lbs 6 oz

so yes, my 2nd labor was MUCH shorter but my 2nd son was over a pound smaller!

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#46 of 54 Old 10-29-2010, 07:48 PM
 
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my answers are no and no

babies ranged from 7#15 (baby #4) to 9#10 oz (baby #6)
my labors ranged from 2 hours (baby #3) to 12 hours (and a c-section)

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The size of your baby has a lot to do with genetics and nutrition during pregnancy.  My first baby I had no childbirth training and while I did try to eat well I did not have an emphasis on protein during my last trimester, with my second (a Bradley birth) a had a strong emphasis on nutrition and protein during my last trimester due to the classes (80-100 grams of protein a day keeps toxemia away) and she was much bigger than my son!  He was 7 lbs 2 oz and she was 8 lbs 10 oz.  Also, nearly all of students have big babies if they did well eating their protein throughout the entire last trimester.  However, a bigger bay isn't a bad thing.  A larger baby equals more pressure and pressure is a natural anesthesia.  Also, pain perception can be drastically changed with training in natural childbirth techniques like walking, relaxing, abdominal breathing, and learning to differentiate between pressure and pain.

 

As far as the length of labor is concerned, that is usually shorter for subsequent births.  Walking during first stage labor has also been shown to reduce the length of labor.

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Yes and no.  (I will skip the twins because that won't make much sense here at all.)

 

 

first dd:  10 lbs.  ~7hrs from first contraction  20mins pushing

 

last dd:  8.5 lbs.  ~5hrs from first contraction  <5mins pushing  (i wasn't even deliberately pushing)


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1st labour 23 hours baby 7 lb 9 oz
2nd labour 5 hours baby 7 lb 13 oz
3rd labour 8 hours baby 7 lb 10.5 oz
4th labour 4 hours baby 9 lb 6 oz

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My boys were the same length and head circumference (22" and 14.5"), but ODS was 8 lbs. 11 oz. and YDS was 9 lbs. 15 oz.  ODS was super skinny, and YDS had some meat on him. lol

 

My first labour was an induction at 41 wks 3 days.  I was in induced labour for 54 hours.  With my second, I went into labour on my own at 41 weeks 1 day, and was already about 3 cm dilated when I was augmented for oligohydramnios.  I guess I was in labour for just under 24 hours, but the hard part was only about 5 hours.  I pushed for 13 minutes.

 

My second labour was FAR easier than the first!  It was an amazing experience that I would gladly do over again!


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in my experience, labors got shorter, and girl babies were smaller than my boy baby..

 

#1 - 19 hours, pit./epidural  7lbs 2oz

#2 12 hours, pit/epidural 8lbs 2 oz

#3 10 hours HB 7lbs 6oz


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First easiest labor and biggest baby at 8.5 lbs. The subsequent 3 labors including a set of twins were all 'short' my anyone's description at about 3 hrs each, but still longer than my first. However, they were all smaller than the first at 8, 8, and 8/7 twins.


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DS1: Long story, about 3 days of latent labor and 16 hours of Cervidil and AROM induced active labor. 1 1/2 hours pushing. 6 lbs 11 oz. 2nd degree tear.

DS2: 2 hours 59 minutes. All natural. 20 minutes of pushing. 8 lbs 11 oz. No tear! joy.gif


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First baby.  Born at 40+3, 10 hours total, including 3.5 hours pushing (asynclitic baby). second degree tear.  7lb, 4oz

 

Second baby.  Born at 42+1, with about 2 days of slowly ramped up labor, 1 hour pushing.  Second degree tear due to a shoulder dystocia.  9lb, 15oz

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