can I ask...how long did everyone bleed for post-labor?
This was my first pregnancy and I bled for 3-4 months after giving birth naturally. My partner and I got intimate earlier tham suggested. I half thought that I might have torn something INSIDE, but even so, I never scheduled a 6 week check up. Now I feel like my vaginal muscles are SO incredibly weak and I have to work so hard using ben wa balls everyday or I will notice a difference sexually. (Maybe that's just what comes with childbirth, I don't know) I'm wondering, is that a normal amount of time to bleed after your first child or did I really possibly tear something all that time ago?