I'm curious to know how you introduced the idea of UC to your partner - esp. if your partner isn't/wasn't very interested in NFL/AP overall. DH is the kind who is very much a 'cross that bridge when we come to it' type, and I doubt that he's even thought about how the birth would be, besides random comments from me... if we already had a child, it would be much simpler, as then we could talk about how we wanted things to be the same/be different.
I'm not even pregnant yet, because I think talking about the birth would be something he would be more open to/involved in then, but because Unassisted Childbirth is a bit further off the radar, I want to drop a few nuggets for him to mull over ahead of time.
(Mods, I posted this in the UC forum already, but I wanted to get wider perspectives/ideas.......)