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#1 of 7 Old 08-18-2011, 02:12 PM - Thread Starter
 
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10 weeks today, another loss. Baby measured the same as 2 weeks ago. Cervix is closed and long still, I am opting for a d and c this time.


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I'm so sorry. I'm hoping to TTC my third as well and I think I might shoot the next person who says third times the charm...

 

I hope the D&C goes smoothly and you recover quickly. Take care of yourself.


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oh, I'm so so sorry.  I'm just heartbroken for you.  Wish I could give you a real hug or clean your house or something.  You're in my thoughts tonight. 


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Thanks, Wilson. That's really sweet. :)

 

I just don't understand, after so many years of infertility, why I can suddenly get pregnant at an age when the baby isn't too likely to be ok. My body just keeps cranking out the hormones and is good at the being pregnant part, but the babies just aren't making it. For so many years I dreamed of being pregnant again, then this last year to have that dream come true 3 times only to be dashed is pretty crappy.


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oh no, I am so so sorry. You were in my due date club and I was so happy when I read your news that you'd seen a heartbeat. I am just so shattered for you... Sending many healing hugs.

 

I had a D and C just over two weeks ago. Recovery has been alright, but of course it's just an ordeal to go through. hug2.gif



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Sorry SageWinna, that really bites.  Hope that your D&C goes smoothly.  Will you be having the chromosomes tested at all?


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NOOOOO!!!!!! I'm so sorry mecry.gif


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