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crayon 05-12-2014 06:47 PM

Currently 12 1/2 weeks. 
So, a week ago I started spotting (last Monday)- by Thursday it was more heavy, enough to require pads, By Saturday light spotting and the same Sunday and today- actually parts of today were hardly even noticeable as pink on TP.  I have not passed any clots- at least nothing larger than a pea size... 

I figured by Thursday- with the need for pads, we were heading for the end. then it lightened up. I am confused. 

2x hpt were positive (although that could still be elevated levels)...

Been starting to feel pregnant again- with smells being the most noticeable issue. 

I am going to have an US tomorrow- assuming the worst- praying for the best.

But would love some insight if anyone has any... This is so lonely and confusing and not to mention, my mom was telling some family- so I posted the "end is near" kinda FB message- so now everyone assumes I have already had a full MC.. 

Feeling so stupid and so confused and so scared. 


Chloe'sMama 05-12-2014 07:32 PM

so sorry mama. that sounds scary. i wouldnt assume anytjing at this point. hoping for the best for you.

beedub 05-13-2014 07:08 AM

Wow girl. I posted almost the same thing at the same time as you. Spotting, bleeding, then it stopped yesterday. I have already had an u/s though, confirming an empty uterus.

Have you read about subchorionic hematoma? Right before my u/s I was reading about it, hoping that's what was going on with me. There are many things that can cause bleeding in pregnancy and everything can still be totally fine with the baby.

Sending warm wishes your way, crayon. I know you're on vacay...I know you're probably not having the vacay you'd envisioned before you left, but it might be really nice to be there during this, I can't handle being at my house right now and going back to work Wednesday evening I am dreading. (((Hugs))) everything could still be okay with your little one.

crayon 05-13-2014 08:04 AM

Beedub, I am at the clinic right now. I am so sad this is happening to us. :-( I am so sorry for you.

I waited for years to try, so this is so upsetting, and on top of the vacation. I think i could do it if it was just hubby and I, but with my parents it is hard.

again, I am so sorry.. If all goes to hell, maybe we will be in the same ddc again together <3

beedub 05-13-2014 09:16 AM

How did it go? Get some answers?

crayon 05-13-2014 12:02 PM

It was uneventful. They saw the baby- but it is measuring at 7 weeks- with no HB- but they told me they consider it "viable" --- but I am 13 weeks... so, not viable people.. I had a HPT before the baby dates right now....

So, my midwife says a MC will come- she says normally when your brain knows for sure, your body will give it up.  



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