No! Everybody has left me alone thinking i would just call them if I needed them, and it has made me feel so alone! If I knew someone who was going through this I would call, tell them I am so sorry, I am thinking of them , is there anything i could do..I would send flowers, a card, anything to show I care...
I dont really understand the situation you are describing (seems like there must be more to it?), but will she get to see/hold her baby? I just lost a baby at 5 months & we plan to get a wood box made to hold the ultrasound photos,the photos we took of him, cards we recieved,etc....maybe you could get her a special box to hold those things?
Please do call, do anything you can - even if she is in too much pain to take your call, even if she cries, even if she is incredibly sad - it will make all the difference in the world to her to know that you cared enough to reach out to her. It will truly make a difference in your friendship!