Hello and Happy holiday weekend to everyone!
I can very honestly say that I am soooooo very glad that this week is over!!!! It has truly been horrible. Here I am sitting here on Saturday and it all is weighing heavily on me so, I came here to vent and share.
Summary - MAJOR overdraft fees, unexpected hospital stay and bebe's first big bump on the head
It started with, nothing other than dipe purchases. As I have stated many times here before we are just geting started and working diligently to get our stash build up.
Earlier last week (week of the 21st) I had requested funds from one of the investment accounts that I had set up with my employer. I did this in an effort to take some of the $$$ pressure off of DH in trying to cover some of the medical bills and better establish our dipe stash (from washing and drying, since it has been so rainy here, almost daily cause our power bill to be almost double!!!).
Late last week I came across some dipe deals on the TP that really seemed like they might work for us. I talked w/ some of hte mamas and they didn't mind working with me waiting until the funds came in.
Thursday the 24th I phoned the company that was drafting the check and they told me that the funds showed that they were at my bank. Well, my bank was having a terrible time w/ thier website and noone could successfuly view thier accounts. So, I called the telebanking center and they assured me that if the people sending the funds could see it at the bank that it should credit my account at midnight. Friday I still couldn't get access to the account and called again and was told the funds were "at the warehouse and were being credited that day".
Late Friday afternoon I went off to PayPal and was able to successfully send payments to the two mamas that agreed to work with me. I also was able to get some wipes from a WHAM and some used CPFs from another to extend our stash and found some Snappis for a good price at another site. Too, I paid for my splurge at RB that I managed to secure as MY FIRST successfully STALKED cover
! We are on our way to a well rounded stash!!!!!!!!!
As you can tell there were several different transactions. My bank doesn't clear funds from weekend purchases until Monday at midnight. WELL, Tuesday morning there were just over $300 in overdraft fees
charged to my account. My direct deposit did not hit until Tuesday morning at 7:33 (instead of Friday) and all of my transactions hit between midnight and 2:00 a.m. on Tuesday!!!!
The lesson learned here - See the $$$ don't take someone's word for it AND PayPal is
NOT like a department store, the grocery store or the gas station. You try to use your bank card there and the funds aren't there they tell you nicely
NO! At PayPal you can spend away and get in tons of TROUBLE!
Now I gotta find a way out of this jam! I've got some stuff I can part with but can't list here on TP 'cause I'm too new. So, I guess I have to go to eBay. YUK!
Wednesday I started not feeling well. Thursday I ended up in the hospital with severe dehydration from the 101 - 102 fever I had been running for almost two days. I had kidney stones and mastitis in one breast. I had surgery early Friday morn to remove the stones. The mastitis spread to the other side causing a form of strep. I cam home late Friday to rest and recuperate. Now we wait to see what insurance pays and for our part of the bill! DH & MIL worked w/ me so DS could be at the hospital w/ me. So, at least nither of us had to deal with being seperated from one another for the first time and he got to stay with his Yum-Yum-Nummies!
This morning I woke up with my voice almost gone and a chest cold, I suppose my body just can't take any more trauma/drama. Then DS fell and bumped his head late this morning and has a bump just over one of his eyebrows. Poor fella!
He seems okay, we have been following protocol and watching him closely.
We had FLUFF mail when we got home and had more today!!!! (yep, some of the stuff that go me in fianancial debt!) I am still trying to convert DH and he liked the FLAG and a sherriff wool cover that we got from a mama here! Yeah!
One last bad thing - I had stayed w/in my dipe budget really well and was going to keep some of the $$ for a Luxe Baby custom order. I so
want these silk dipes and wool covers. This WHAM is soooooooooooo nice and her silk liners are FABULOUS!!! I am now scrounging around to find a way to still do this -
: keep 'em crossed that we can! Too now that DH likes FLAGS, I gotta aquire some more.
Now, another mishap!
DH was watching DS while I was typing this and DS lost his balance and fell again trying to pull up on and bumped his head again. Now he has another bump on his forehead, I feel so terrible for him!!!!!!!
Tomorrow is the start of a new week!!!!!!!!!