I think discussions like this one, where at least some of the person's involved in the action being discussed are known to be MDC members (or are winky smilie indcated to be) really skirt the lines of our policies about posting to discuss member behavior. A thread that starts out with "I may get flamed for this but..." is a signal to one's conscience that the subject is going to touch certain folks quite personally. That seems to be indicative of discussing a member's behavior.
So I want to ask first of all that you (general you) give consideration to the community you are a part of when you post a thread to discuss such issues. We can of course host appropriate discussion of issues of concern to the Diapering community. But let's please try to do so in a manner that expresses the concern more appropriately and seeks solutions for the problem you believe exists. We just don't judge and insult others and their actions and call it debate. If the need is to call individuals on their behavior that you believe is untoward then it would be most respectful and good-willed to approach the individual personally and talk it over before talking about them in their community.
I realize no names were mentioned here. But when you discuss an issue and point to where the issue is taking place it serves the same purpose and is skirting another policy we have about cross board discussion.
I think it would be best to keep this thread closed.