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ok so i was this and i dont know i may be the only one but i think this is just wrong...

http://hyenacart.com/prod_details.php?id=35288&vid=124


it looks kind of prono or fetish to me... am i the only one..

i hope this is the right place to post this...i just seems like its not nice for a child that all..

oh and i love black dipes but Leather and metal rings is a bit much..
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The leather straps may be a little constrictive on the butt. :LOL It is not my taste now but I was such a little goth in highschool that my shock meter for such things is worn down.
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:LOL I saw it and thought it was a S&M'ish look. : It made me chuckle but I have a weird sense of humor.
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Well, not my style, but I would not go call CPS either, LOL! I would love to be a fly on the wall when the diaper mama shows it off to, say, those cloth diaper hating MIL's! HA! It'd be worth getting just for that shock value. LOL!
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yeah, i think i'm a little uncomfortable with that too.
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I saw that and it just made me feel verrrrrry old. I don't think there's anything wrong with it, and it would be cute for Halloween, especially for the shock value!
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yeah, i think i'm a little uncomfortable with that too.
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I don't like it. I can see the goth appeal I guess, but I am always thinking in terms of safety.:LOL Dd could very easily try to use that ring to pick ds up .... lol At least, that's the first thing I thought. Or, he would get himself caught on something.lol No, my kids are waaaaay to curious for that kind of dipe

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When I think punk or goth I think of this...
http://www.crankypantshome.com/longies.html

But, not quite that dipe. It's interesting. REally creative, but it doesn't quite do it for me.

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This my first reaction. I was never goth, but that looks more S&M to me than goth. Maybe I'm too old to judge, though :LOL I like to think of myself as still fairly hip, but maybe I'm just fooling myself.....
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Not my taste at all, and how can that possibly be comfortable to have a piece of metal on your bum when the baby falls ..... ouch!!
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definitely different......
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I thought it was s & m, too, so I was confused and surprised.

not my thing at all. I would even go as far as to say that it seems wrong to impose a diaper like that on a kid. But I'm very sensitive about that kinda thing. I want my kids to choose their own everything and even have issues with most advocacywear.

I wouldn't call cps about it, though. Just
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I think the skull longies are just the right amount of goth. That first one looks S&M - representing a sexuality, not a culture. But maybe if Mommy and Daddy are Harley enthusiasts?

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I don't like it. I can see the goth appeal I guess, but I am always thinking in terms of safety.:LOL Dd could very easily try to use that ring to pick ds up .... lol At least, that's the first thing I thought. Or, he would get himself caught on something.lol No, my kids are waaaaay to curious for that kind of dipe
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Hmmmmm...

See, I look at that, and I think B&D. That disturbs me, considering B&D is a specific fetish IMO...
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I never got the whole goth thing : I have to admit when I saw that diaper I was a bit disturbed. But that is just me. Very creative though and looks very well made.
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When I think punk or goth I think of this...
http://www.crankypantshome.com/longies.html

But, not quite that dipe. It's interesting. REally creative, but it doesn't quite do it for me.
now i *love* the skull longies!!! they're adorable!!


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But maybe if Mommy and Daddy are Harley enthusiasts?
at one time dh and i both owned harleys and dh manages a motorcycle dealership. and i think it's inappropriate for a child.
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You're obviously not enthusiastic enough - you have maintained common sense!

I wasn't meaning to slag on harley owners at all. Just that I've seen some things remade in leather that shouldn't have been - dog jackets, furniture in harness leather, etc. It seems to be marketed to harley owners, although I don't know who actually buys it.

I didn't know until last week that my dh works with Mr. Leather "Our Town". He won the leather wearing body building contest.

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It makes me think of punk/goth. It doesn't make me think of porno/s&m.

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It gave me a bad vibe, s&m'ish. And I am not shocked by most things, I am pretty open minded and not offeended easily, but icck.
I'm all for black diapers, but the leather straps are a bit much.
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whoa...that totally gives me the creepys. Not goth, but definately S&M. Eeewww...just leaves a bad taste in my mouth especially as something for babies.

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When I think punk or goth I think of this...
http://www.crankypantshome.com/longies.html

But, not quite that dipe. It's interesting. REally creative, but it doesn't quite do it for me.
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this is punk or goth to me...and maybe a something with spikes on it is punk but i still wouldnt put it on a kid..KWIM?

i will say i really like the black one with ruffles on the butt...that is really cute and looks PAINLESS...unlike the leather strap one with a metal ring...

i dont know maybe im just always thinking of how it would feel to wear something like that KWIM? i dont think it would be so comfy..
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It gave me a bad vibe, s&m'ish. And I am not shocked by most things, I am pretty open minded and not offeended easily, but icck.
I'm all for black diapers, but the leather straps are a bit much.

took the words out of my mouth.
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whoa...that totally gives me the creepys. Not goth, but definately S&M. Eeewww...just leaves a bad taste in my mouth especially as something for babies.

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I know the WAHM was trying to appeal to certain moms, but...

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YIKES! thats sorta...well...soo NOT Gothic...more SnM'ish to me...in my opinion
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That looks more S&M to me too. Creepy.
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Okay, back in the day, I used to dress in a mixture of grunge-punk-whatever I had that looked different, etc. I smile, whenever I see my younger family members doing the whole 'I'm a punk/goth/whatever' look, since for some kiddos, its just fashion and music history for the most part repeating itself Kids are most definitely on a fashion rebellion, and are mixing preppy shirts with studded belts, etc. On the subject of the diaper...everyone is entitled to their opinion, and some obviously are not going to like the diaper shown. Some will love it, and may even purchase it. Personally, I don't like it. And, not because I think it stands for anything nasty, but because, I just don't get the leather look. Just like I dislike anything with skulls on it (they scare me-lol ). But, that's just me. Her diapers look very well made though, and the lace one is cute

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Looks like something you would see in the S&M scene... on an adult lol

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If a person capable of making their own decisions wants to wear leather straps and spikes or whatever, I could care less. But I think it's wrong to put it on a baby. That can not be comfortable to lay on. I would never put that on my baby.

And FYI merryone, I don't think anyone has a problem with "kinky people", it's seeing that kind of thing on a baby that feels wrong. Your use of the word kinky implies that you think it's sexual looking, and IMO, it's wrong to put anything sexual on a baby. You can express your kinky sexual preferences without involving a child.
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