My daughter will be 4 in sept, ec'd since 4 months old, and is still having misses on a regular basis. Mostly just pee, but also the occasional poop miss (always if I don't catch the body language and usher her to the toilet or potty- when I know she won't make it to the toilet). She will willingly use the toilet if we offer (most of the time), but will often only initiate if she wants something (which is strange since we've never used bribes or rewards).
Does anyone else have this problem? I don't know what to do with her anymore. And I am TIRED of helping her clean up the mess (I always try to get her to clean up her own mess, and she does, but the inconvenience factor of stopping what she's doing to clean up doesn't seem to phase her. She also only seems to do this at home. I don't remember the last time we had a miss outside of the house (although she still won't initiate).