Oh, how wonderful of a story. In the beginning when we EC, that's how dd did her elimination. She found a "favorite" spot (not the potty) and did it. When I realized that, I let her go there every time when I take off her pants until she's comfortable going in a bathroom environment. I will also make the "ssss" sound when I see her pee and tell her she just peed. I was very excited because she was not doing it in her diaper for that particular pee and poop. So encourage her for a good job done. It will eventually get a whole lot better, but little at a time. Take every success as it comes. Keep up the good work!