Well I talked to him on the phone tonight, and apart from 2 things, it was a nice chat, just about general stuff. 2 things have stayed on my mind in the past few hours though, that I just feel is weird. Can you tell me what you think please?
1-Im 100% sure he told me before Christmas he was 24 and would be 25 in 2009 "24, I'll be 25 next year". Then tonight on the phone we were discussing someone's birthday, so I asked him when his is, and he replied he had it -it was early January. Fine. But then I said "so you're 25 now?" and he said no he's 24 now, he was only 23 before...So I was like "im sure you told me you were 24 and going to be 25" and he said "sorry if you heard me wrong, im 24 now not 25". -So....I mean that's weird right? Maybe it's a misunderstanding because of the language barrier again? I don't know but that seems weird to me.
2-I brought up about his ex-girlfriend, which he had told me about before a little. He said she broke up with him because he refused to move in with her and have a baby with her when they had only been together a short period of time, it was way too soon for him. -Fair enough, that's sensible, imo it's good he didn't want to rush into that kind of stuff. Anyway, last time he said they had been together 3 months when she wanted to do all this with him, then tonight he told me it had only been 1 month when she asked him to do it. So again, that's conflicting and I don't know which is true. Am I going mad and over-reacting over nothing on this one? I just don't know.
Here's what im thinking. We haven't seen eachother in person for 3 weeks (due to DS being home for the school Christmas holidays, and us both being sick an extra week), so I'm thinking it might be good to not meet him again just yet, but continue getting to know eachother over the phone instead?
He already said again tonight hes desperate to see me, and wants us to move foreward, and that meeting up for an hour in the mornings (like we did before a few times when I walk my dog) -that he feels that isn't long enough to get to know eachother. I know what he means, and agree seeing eachother for longer periods of time is how we are going to get to know eachother better. But I said "when do we have time to do that?" And he said he will leave that upto me to think about and decide on a good time and place. (ok when??? where??? how long for??? lol)
Seie He asked me if I would like to go shopping with him on Sunday to help him pick out some new shoes -he needs some apparantly. Seie weren't you just saying it was a really good sign if a guy wants you to go shopping with him?
Ofcourse I said "I can't do it on Sunday" -because im with my DS at the weekends as school is closed. It annoys me a bit that he continues to suggest we see eachother on weekend days when I've said so many times that I can't. It is the best day for him though, so that's why.