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#241 of 244 Old 05-31-2009, 08:12 PM - Thread Starter
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He left me on his messenger so I sent him a casual message when I noticed his status was 'back in _hometown_' and asked how his visit home was going. Then we were really formal and awkward via chat on and off for the evening, and then around midnight it exploded into this long intimate heart wrenching talk, which I have read and re-read today and you guys are right. He's selfish and he should have deleted me from his messenger so as to avoid this. He should have also explained to me when he made the promise, that he and I wouldn't be in touch anymore, so I wouldn't have been left wondering why the sudden drop off from lots of communication to none.

I'm numb. Shattered. But numb at the same time.
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#242 of 244 Old 05-31-2009, 09:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Butterflymom View Post
I love you. Those 7 points were great And ITA about the show-off-that-curvy-and-not-fat-bod. Definitely the way to attract 'em.
I'm glad my post brought you some happiness.
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#243 of 244 Old 05-31-2009, 09:59 PM
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I was laughing out loud when I read your seven points, tripping billies.

Single mama to a 5yo and 8yo

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Originally Posted by Seie View Post
Organic papaya: I am pretty sure someone is going to disagree with this suggestion - but could he come visit you in the evening after your ds is asleep? Ofcourse that would only work if you trust him to be a decent guy! That goes without saying. But since your DS has already met him? You could sit up and chat and have a glass of wine. He would obviously most likely want to sleep with you unless you had set out strick rules beforehand - I mean - if you dont want to take that step just yet..
If that is not an option maybe get in touch with other single moms in your area - could be possible to make a deal of "I watch yours if you watch mine" - A night out for a night out kwim?
Ive answered your question here


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