Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Land of the Ice & Snow
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momanderson, I agree with Holly!
And Soothing Southerner and Music Man both wrote me today--SS sending some upbeat messages confirming meeting me this weekend (not traveling after all) but all I want to know is when will he call again? Tonight? Now?? I'm so impatient. Music Man emailed me back last night that he got no text messages from me yesterday and anyways will call me today. Then he got no answer for 8+ hours and re-sent the same email, at which point I answered (I had been sleeping). I hope he calls any minute... I like long phone conversations while waiting for a first date. They really help gauge things.
So for my weird story.
There's this local stage actor guy who I've been friends with for a couple of months. He's a single dad and helped me write my murder mystery game for the murder mystery party I threw in October, and he's just been a nice guy to talk to on facebook chat or text messaging or whatever, and I like him. He's actually a familiar face from the first years I lived out here as he was in a language-training-tv-program-for-foreigners that I watched over and over during my pregnancies, so it's funny that I'd seen so much of his face 6 years before meeting him. Then he's been asking me to hang out for the past few weeks but it hasn't worked out. We tried to arrange a playdate with our kids last week and that didn't work out either. But anyways, two nights ago he asked to pick me up and go to his place to watch a video. This all went great, he even took me to dinner first, and we had a blast hanging out, very relaxed and casual and I hope that we stay friends at the very least. He has a gorgeous cat that i enjoyed making new friends with. His son was with his mother so it was just us at his place and it got very late and i was falling asleep on the couch. He told me I could sleep anywhere I wanted in his home, just pick a spot and sleep so I crawled up into the loft into his big bed and crashed in my clothes, on top of the blankets. He later came up next to me and got under the blankets on the other side, in his underwear. The man happens to be a greek god with his shirt off, by the way. Like, Hugh Jackman as Wolverine in X-Men type body, or perhaps even more muscular and ripped. Just breathtaking. He's got shaggy hair like a rugged wolf, and leathery face that shows all of his 43 years but is kinda sexy, like a hunter or warrior. He often plays such roles in the opera. Anyway, he didn't touch me, but his cat snuggled in between my knees and slept. I eventually got under the blankets and his cat stayed dedicated to my knees. Later I wake up to a veritable shower raining all over me. My face, my head, etc. I wonder why I'm getting all wet and where the sprinkling water is coming from, but it stops and I try to go back to sleep but I see that it's very warm between my legs. I start to smell cat urine and it dawns on me. the cat had wet himself there on the bed on my knees, and then walked up towards my head and shaken himself as hard as he could to get some of the pee out of his soaked fur. all over my face and hair. and my jeans were soaked with cat pee, as the bed. I took them off and hung them to dry and went to his son's bed and slept in my underwear and a shirt for awhile, and later I felt weird in his son's loft because it's like being a in a treehouse, very disconcerting like you could fall out, and I returned to Stage Actor's bed next to him, and we slept all night. When we woke, we spent another 2 hours talking, joking around, and watching youtube clips in his bed before getting up and making breakfast. I tried to send the message that touching wasn't off limits, several times, by small touches on his arm or against him a bit, but very little. I was sort of hoping that he would make some sort of a romantic move. But no. He took me home and helped me get my Christmas tree down & out, and then went home. I texted him last night to see if he was up (I know what a night owl he is) and if he'd want to join me and he politely declined. What is going on here?