Join Date: Oct 2003
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You have to know in your heart of hearts that this is a horrible idea. Just look at what you wrote that led up to the divorce. Your ex is so abusive!
Of course he can be "nice"... when he's trying to get you back and he isn't dealing with daily realties. You KNOW what the reality is with him. I would make a large wager that building your business would not be "stress-free" if you did it while living with him again. Most of all, you'd be doing a disservice to your children to put them in that position again. First, because you'd be knowingly bringing them to live with an abuser, second of all, the nightmare of moving them out yet again.
And if I must be honest, it's too soon to be living already with this new guy. It's GREAT that you have that companionship, everyone needs and deserves that. But since it doesn't seem to be giving you a financial leg up, anyway, it would just seem to be much more healthy for you and your children to live somewhere, you know, on your own. You don't seem very attached to him anyway (since you're considering leaving him)... and that's okay. It would seem you have a lot to process from being in a bad marriage for so long. Why not give yourself space to do that?