since were in the beginning stages of the divorce, there's nothing official, so he technically has just as much right to be in the home, and use the laundry. only reason he isn't in the home is that i told him his girlfriend isn't allowed anywhere near here.
currently stbx is staying in a motel with the other woman 45 minutes away, so while he could take dd to a park or out to eat, he was never that type of dad. for the first week they would play video games together, but hasn't lately. poor dd said he might as well not even come
i did lay down the law and told him not to txt his gf during his visits. before i found out about the affair, he said his constant txt was work related
i can so see him not being involved with 4m old dd2, but i never expected him to do this to dd1
stbx has 2 other dd (18yr and 20yr), and always hated that they would never call, txt, or be excited about visiting. here is our 9yr old trying so hard (calling, txt, asking to go places) and getting little response.