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If you are aiming for 50/50, I have seen a few different schedules. One I think would work well for younger kids (assuming he is okay spending a couple of nights away from you) or even as something to work up to is:
Monday and Tuesday (overnights) with Mom
Wed and Thursday with Dad
and alternate weekends (Friday, Sat. Sun. overnights).
Is your ex suggesting that you have him only the weekends and and he has him during the weekdays?
As for the rest, well, I am not sure if I even belong here yet- I moved out to my parents house a week ago, but dp and I are still hoping to work things out. Dd is 3 though and has been totally fine with staying at Grandma's so far and hasn't really asked a lot of questions. I hope the move goes as smoothly for you! I can totally sympathize with the "head spinning" feeling btw!