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#1 of 53 Old 12-03-2010, 11:24 AM - Thread Starter
 
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So a different judge was there and I (and the kids!) don't have to be there December 15th!!!! The hearing is continued until the end of February. We also have a motion to change the venue to here where I live in January so that might still happen. If my ex wants the kids at all for xmas then he has to ask me and my lawyer. I am so beyond happy, now I can relax and get ready for my finals and xmas!! Thank you all so much for your support. So I have nothing to deal with until January when, before a new judge, we request the case is moved here.Yay for Christmas/Hanukah/Solstice miracles!!

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Congratulations, Avani! That's absolutely wonderful news!!

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So a different judge was there and I (and the kids!) don't have to be there December 15th!!!! The hearing is continued until the end of February. We also have a motion to change the venue to here where I live in January so that might still happen. If my ex wants the kids at all for xmas then he has to ask me and my lawyer. I am so beyond happy, now I can relax and get ready for my finals and xmas!! Thank you all so much for your support. So I have nothing to deal with until January when, before a new judge, we request the case is moved here.Yay for Christmas/Hanukah/Solstice miracles!!



THANK GOD!!!!!!!  I am SO happy for you!!!!  I was SO SCARED when I saw the "update" link on the main page!  I thought I was going to see something horrible!  I'm SO GLAD that it worked out.  SO the kids are with you for X-mas too?  He doesn't get to see them till after Feb?????  Oh please say yes.

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Thanks goddness for smal miracles.

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YESSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I seriously just posted positive vibes in the other thread (went to it straight from my CP) and then saw this. YAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAAYAYAYAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

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And December 15th is my son's birthday so I'm glad a horrible thing didn't have to happen to you on the anniversary of the best day of my life! :) 


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My ex has to make a request for xmas break to my lawyer in order to get any time with them. And due to the new information I found I don't believe it's in the kids best interest to go down there :) He can always go in ex parte but since it isn't an emergency, no he technically can't get any time with them!! I am so giddy and relieved.

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My ex has to make a request for xmas break to my lawyer in order to get any time with them. And due to the new information I found I don't believe it's in the kids best interest to go down there :) He can always go in ex parte but since it isn't an emergency, no he technically can't get any time with them!! I am so giddy and relieved.



OMG!  Thats AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!  I'm SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!  YOU GET THE HOLIDAY"S WITH YOUR BABIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

I'm so relieved.  Merry Christmas!!!  Enjoy the season (right after you finish those finals!)

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YAY AVANI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

WHEEEE talk about an early Christmas gift!

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YAYAYAYAYAY!  Finally.  thumbsup.gif


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Wow, I broke out in a worried sweat for you when I came here to check for updates.  Whew, what a blessing.  I'm so happy for you. 


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what a relief!  finally some justice. 

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OMG, I am SO excited for you and your kids. I've been worried all day. I am thrilled that you all will get to have a peaceful holiday together!!!

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Oh Momma, I have been thinking of you all day!  I am so thrilled for you and your kids!!!  Thank God you have a new judge!!!  Enjoy your holidays in peace!

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WOOOOOOO-HOOOOOOOOOOO, best.news.ever!!!!!  Super Congrats!

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YIPPPEEEEE!!!!

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Thats wonderful news!!!

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I am soooo excited for you Avani!!!!! You really needed a break, so happy that crazy judge was not there and this new judge pushed it out so far which means regardless of if the venue changes to where you are or not that you don't have to deal with crazy judge anymore!  ((((HUGS)))) Very Merry Christmas to you and the kids!!!!!!!!


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I'm SO happy for you, Avani!  What a wonderful relief, and so glad you and your lawyer hung in there and kept going - it sure paid off.  I hope this means you'll never deal with the crazy old judge again - SO glad the one today was reasonable, setting a much better precendent!  Good news all around - I wish you and your kids super happy holidays!

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Oh thank god! YAY! I'm so happy for you and your children! ENJOY every single minute of their holiday pagent, your finals, and every day God continues to bless us all with your presence. You are such a strong, amazing mamma, I am SO GLAD you got some news that you can relax for a bit!

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I just let out a loud cry of joy for you. Woke the baby, but it was worth it!!!! OMG, I'm so happy and excited for you. That is such good news!!!!!!!!!!

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YIPPPEEEEE!!!!


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YIPPPEEEEE!!!!


And THIS is why we would be great friends IRL.  HILARIOUS!


heck no! I'd be doing it if I could. My lawyer told me she was so close to kicking my ex in the balls today in court that it took everything she to restrain herself. My lawyer was stating my case about the finals, kids in school, finances and my ex kept saying so what, this has already been told to the other judge a million times and who cares! I'm so giddy it's ridiculous. I can't wait for the xmas break! And next year, a new judge!
 

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w00h00!

and :-P to crazy ex's and crazy judges


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Forum crashing, but I've been following your story for a while and I'm SO SO SO happy it was good news for you today!  Will this be the judge you'll have next time after your current one retires?


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I am so happy and relieved for you.  I wonder what was up with crazy judge?  

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Avani I am so happy for you!!! joy.gif

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What amazing news!!! I am so happy for you. joy.gif
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