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Old 10-08-2011, 05:25 PM - Thread Starter
 
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I did a search in this forum as I knew I posted something here quite awhile ago.  I thought it was very interesting to see where I was at during that time and when it was...

 

Well, I posted in Nov of 2008 about separating from the man who at the time I was not married too.  Some things have changed, we got married, moved to another state (due to my job) and bought a house.  The strange part is the feelings are the same and he is finally moving out next week.

 

The reminder of this is...it hasn't worked for a very long time and I have stayed together and even gotten married for certain reasons.  Apparently now I need to do what I have been putting off doing for a very long time.  I also was going to leave him before our DS was conceived.  No wonder he has a hard time accepting that its real, I seem to have always gotten back with him.  That WILL be different this time.

 

Here is the link to the original post if anyone is interested:

 

http://www.mothering.com/community/t/999438/leaning-towards-singledom

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Old 10-08-2011, 05:27 PM - Thread Starter
 
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and another insightful piece to this realization, is that a person responded saying that living together and not really being together brings on depression....she was spot on....

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I totally understand looking back to old posts and re-reading them.  It's astomishing to read them and see how much has changed (for the good and bad) and how much live has changed since then.  I did this not too long ago with a blog I used to write in when I was still together with the ex. 


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Sometimes we have lessons left to learn, strength to gather, and other things tugging at our energy.  Good luck as you take this very hard step....and come back here or find a friend if you doubt/waver again....as many times as you need....

 


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I have been looking back thru old posts to.


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