I asked dh to leave tonight and now he is staying with a friend. I hurt so bad for my kids right now. They are so young to go through this. Something I never wanted them to go through. Now not only is daddy moving out but we will have to sell the house to pay off bills and I can't even imagine how I am going to manage putting on a happy face for them. Especially once the new baby is here in a couple weeks and we are house bound and sleep deprived. Ugh. Tell me they are gonna be ok?
Unexpectedly expecting a new little one in November!!!
They are going to be ok. You will find that you have more strength in you than you think, for you and for your children. Someone told me that at the very beginning of my messy divorce and I brushed them off, but it's happening. Take care of yourself.
Single student mama to dd 5/04 and ds 11/07.
it will be ok. and depending on the circumstances your kids might do better without him around all the time. You will find the strength for you and the kids. Have others help you as well.
: Mother (4/11/06) to Josephine and (4/23/09) to Oliver and baby (due June 1st)
Babies: Angel (6/29/02), Tiberius (3/8/11), Lillianna (12/27/11)
You are stronger than you think. The kids will be okay. And as PP said, we will be here listening and sending virtual hugs...
Mom to two terrific kiddos, affirming every day that the Universe is unfolding as it should and all is well...