We have talked about going to counseling together but we never had the money to do so. Same thing with counseling for me. I just need to try to not let our personal relationship interfere with our parenting. I hate when I feel like I don't know what to do, I'm not really used to that, I guess you could say im kind of a control freak and I dont really like change. Since this type of situation is new to me I just handle it inappropriately. I just wish I knew how to handle it better... but I'm trying and I'm sure with time I will get better at it.