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Well DS 1's dad has moved back after a year and a half away to make more money. He got married and she's quite a relief to me. Still the annoyance of not getting things back that you send with your kid have come up.

DS 2's dad and I are trying to get to a good place. I wanted to get out while we can still save the friendship. We've gone out a couple of times after I announced moving on.

That number I gave out has come to fruition. We've been hanging out and texting a lot. The stars all lined up that I was child free and he didn't have to work. And we had a wonderful time. He has two teenagers and doesn't think he wants more. SMC for #3 for me!
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I had my consult today and didn't get any good answers. Apparently everything looks good so I'm now on a prescription for iron because its low (but I'm not anemic like I used to be) and she said I can start thyroid meds if I want to because my TSH is a little high but only sub-clinical cause my T4 is normal so in plain English - its not a total concern but could be lower. Basically, we're going to just try this since my vitamin D should be fine by now and nothing else is sticking out including perimenopause like she was worried about.

 

I'll recheck my thyroid and then decide when I schedule my HSG to see if the problem is my tubes or uterus.

 

Has anyone had one of those? Prescottschels, did you have an HSG? Did I spell you name wrong, lol? Sorry about that.

 

Hope everyone is having a good week so far.

 

I'm happy to hear that everything looks good! With thyroid, if you have hypothyroid symptoms even with norma lab values, I think it's worth looking into it. A little change can go a long way. 

 

As for HSG, I had one a few years ago. It wasn't pleasant but bearable. Having strong painkillers help.


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I got my biopsy results today. The good news is that my abnormally thick endometrium isn't cancerous, but they still don't know why it is the way it is, "but it's fine. you're fine!" she said :eyesroll  They want me to TTC 3-6 MORE months before I go back for the HSG banghead.gif  It's maddening & I honestly don't think I have it in me to go that much longer. My emotional reserves are drained. 

I was gonna call the foster/adopt agency last week but I got a call from the gal saying she was going on vacay, so I'll have to wait til next week to get in touch with her. 
 

 

Glad to know it's good news, although sorry they won't do the HSG... maybe a short break would be good.  Would you foster a child first?


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I'm happy to hear that everything looks good! With thyroid, if you have hypothyroid symptoms even with norma lab values, I think it's worth looking into it. A little change can go a long way. 

 

As for HSG, I had one a few years ago. It wasn't pleasant but bearable. Having strong painkillers help.

 

 

 

Thanks for this comment. I think I get one notification when this thread is updated but not every time so I didn't see this but I did read on it and was prepared with painkillers. I'm planning to get my thyroid tested again soon. Its a little high for trying to get pregnant so it is worth looking into.

 

Did you have your ultrasound yet? I know I asked you that before but it always feels so long between when I last check in here. Plus I'm hoping you have a good one. How are you feeling now? Have you made any progress on the possible move?

 

I had my HSG. It actually wasn't bad at all. I only felt the speculum and had a tiny bit of cramping when I got home. It may be because I took 1200mg of ibuprofen but it didn't touch my normal pain so I don't know. It looks like both my tubes may be blocked but I wont get the final say until I speak with my doctor. The radiologist thinks they are because even with twisting and moving all the dye around, it didn't go anywhere and he couldn't see my tubes. Guess we'll see but it kind of confirms that there is something, probably endometriosis going on in there. So there's the good if you can call it that and the bad.

 

I will think on that some other time though. I have a house to myself since J is with a sitter so I'm going to go do exactly nothing, lol.

 

Hope everyone is having a good Monday so far.

 

 


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It sounds like you're on your way to TTC soon with these tests. Would you have to do IVF if both tubes are blocked?

 

I'm generally nauseated all day and night since I got BFP. I spotted a few weeks ago and had an u/s-- they saw the little bean's heartbeat then. I had another follow-up u/s today, and the little bean's measuring right on track. I'm letting myself get a little excited now. 9w3d today only though. 

 

I've decided to move. Having family support helps a lot, and my daughter is close to all my siblings. She loves them and didn't want to leave, and always asking to return. I found a preschool for her so everything's set. Hoping when I'm there, we'd be able to move a bit to the outskirts where there's more sun and fresh air. I'll also be keeping my job here, so I'll be traveling once every 4-6 weeks for work. Not sure how that will work out, but I'll figure it out during the pregnancy. My dd's gotten more independent lately, which helps because I'm so tired all the time. 

 

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It sounds like you're on your way to TTC soon with these tests. Would you have to do IVF if both tubes are blocked?

 

I'm generally nauseated all day and night since I got BFP. I spotted a few weeks ago and had an u/s-- they saw the little bean's heartbeat then. I had another follow-up u/s today, and the little bean's measuring right on track. I'm letting myself get a little excited now. 9w3d today only though. 

 

I've decided to move. Having family support helps a lot, and my daughter is close to all my siblings. She loves them and didn't want to leave, and always asking to return. I found a preschool for her so everything's set. Hoping when I'm there, we'd be able to move a bit to the outskirts where there's more sun and fresh air. I'll also be keeping my job here, so I'll be traveling once every 4-6 weeks for work. Not sure how that will work out, but I'll figure it out during the pregnancy. My dd's gotten more independent lately, which helps because I'm so tired all the time. 

 

How's everyone else doing??

 

You're almost out of the first trimester! Glad to hear everything is on track.

Sounds like moving will be a benefit plus it wouldn't be too hard to travel for work if you have family nearby. She'll love it.

 

I would have no other option for getting pregnant other than IVF. I'm trying to decide on the pros and cons of surgery to unblock them but I think I may well just leave it alone and move on. There's a chance they wont get cleared or if they do that they wont work as well anyway. IVF seems to be the smarter option. My doctor will let me know though.


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IVF seems to make more sense to me. Higher chances of success, plus possible frozen embryos for future use. 

 

I feel that moving is the best choice for my kid(s), whereas I'm still conflicted about it. But I suppose I feel a bit like that about donor insemination sometimes-- it's not ideal, but feel like it's far preferable to a one-night stand or dating just to find a baby daddy. It's not helping that it's hard taking care of my daughter while nauseous/tired right now. Did you ever feel like that?

 

I'm also recently wondering how much I should tell people when/if people ask. I don't want to hide anything, yet I don't want people/extended family gossiping about my child's origins before he/she even knows! I'm hoping that most people would just assume the baby has the same father as my dd and be tactful enough not to ask. My ex-husband left in February so it's not that far-fetched.. still, I better have some answers ready. 


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<p>IVF seems to make more sense to me. Higher chances of success, plus possible frozen embryos for future use. </p>
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<p>I feel that moving is the best choice for my kid(s), whereas I'm still conflicted about it. But I suppose I feel a bit like that about donor insemination sometimes-- it's not ideal, but feel like it's far preferable to a one-night stand or dating just to find a baby daddy. It's not helping that it's hard taking care of my daughter while nauseous/tired right now. Did you ever feel like that?</p>
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<p>I'm also recently wondering how much I should tell people when/if people ask. I don't want to hide anything, yet I don't want people/extended family gossiping about my child's origins before he/she even knows! I'm hoping that most people would just assume the baby has the same father as my dd and be tactful enough not to ask. My ex-husband left in February so it's not that far-fetched.. still, I better have some answers ready. </p>
I think it's the better choice too. It's just that it is a bit more major and costly and so it's not something I can just do as easily as I did with an IUI. I think more than having blocked tubes, that's the part that makes me upset.

Did I ever feel like it's not ideal but better than the other options? Yeah. Much better than those options. I was never all that hung up on being married either though so its more on par with that option. Either get married or do it myself kind of thing. This just happened first, lol.

I'm more open with it the older he gets mainly because I don't want people to assume the worst. If they say nothing, I wouldn't volunteer it if I were you. Let them wonder!

Have you settled in on the move yet? How's everything with the three of you?

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I think it's the better choice too. It's just that it is a bit more major and costly and so it's not something I can just do as easily as I did with an IUI. I think more than having blocked tubes, that's the part that makes me upset.

Did I ever feel like it's not ideal but better than the other options? Yeah. Much better than those options. I was never all that hung up on being married either though so its more on par with that option. Either get married or do it myself kind of thing. This just happened first, lol.

I'm more open with it the older he gets mainly because I don't want people to assume the worst. If they say nothing, I wouldn't volunteer it if I were you. Let them wonder!

Have you settled in on the move yet? How's everything with the three of you?

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I can understand that given how invasive and the cost of IVF. I had an egg retrieval done once for an egg donation, and the whole process was not so pleasant. Have you started towards ttc yet?

Yeah, the more I think about it, the more I feel like these details of my life is nobody's business. We're moving on Sunday, and I'm hoping to make it the rest of the week without anyone asking whether or not I'm pregnant. And I've got a bunch of non-answers ready for anyone who asks after the move.

Also preparing to tell my mom about the pregnancy. But I'm leaning towards not telling her about the sperm donor until after the baby is born, if the subject comes up. I don't think she will react well, and I worry she will treat the kid differently. Besides that, my mother and I don't have the kind of relationship where we talk about stuff. Out of my four siblings, two agree with my approach, and two thinks I should tell.

So... I'll meet up with my family near my mother's birthday, and I don't want to talk about it on that day. My birthday is three days later, so thinking to wait until then. At least they can't say mean things, lol.

I'm starting to get excited! My dd likes to point and my belly and ask about the baby. Very cute.

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It's been a while so just checking in. Hope everyone is doing well!
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Thanks for posting esg!!
Life has been nuts! Crazy, but good...
Where are you at w/the IVF option?
girlspn-how was the move and more importantly how is that baby belly??
Hi Farmermomma! What's goin on in your world?
I'm 11 DPO and am wondering if I'm PG... pondering a test tomorrow.... vacillating between ravenously hungry and slightly nauseous, peeing all.the.time....
I have an appointment set to meet in person w/the foster-adopt lady in my home just for an initial walk through-probably to make sure it's not a shack or whatever lol on Aug 6th so I've been madly trying to finish house projects and get more organized turning my spare room that I was just about to turn into my office into a kid bedroom and turning my shed into my office so there has been A LOT of shuffling of stuff from one space to another to storage, etc. Also my dad and a family friend were just here for 4 or 5 days helping me replace the roof on the patio which was rotting and falling through so that's amazing to have complete, and I'm SO exhausted!
I'm going to be caring for 2 kiddos (6 mon & 19 mon) starting in a couple weeks that belong to 2 of my girlfriends who are both teachers at the same school that I used to work at so it's been fun shopping yard sales and craigslist for baby stuff that I'll also be able to use for my own when the time comes so I don't have to let my foster-adopt or possible pregnancy out of the bag to all & sundry just yet... it's nice to have a guise ;-)

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So good to hear from this group again.
@ Prescottchels- caring for 2 babies while trying to adopt and get pregnant. That oughta do it. When it rains it pours. Those babies around should open the flood gates! I've heard so many stories of "couldn't get pregnant till we adopted" I think babies change women. Fingers crossed you're already there.

@girls pin when's the edd? So excited for you.

How goes it esg?

My world is a shifting. My little guy is 14 months now. And although several mommas from my due date club are in new DDCs that spacing is not for me. He's still almost walking. He likes to stand up on the bed and hold his balance for a bit and then pounce on me or brother or kitty.

Biggest news is we're gonna have to move after years of never planning on it. Sigh. House is upside down with what it would cost to fix it compared to what it's worth. I just put a bunch of repairs into an older car and then a month later the transmission went out. I thought that was an expensive lesson, but maybe it was a cheap one so I don't do the same with my house. Hopefully we can build just a couple of blocks from here on some property we have with a creek running through it. Been hanging out at the creek a bit this summer. Put up a sand pile in a natural pit by the creek. Sand play and creek stomping. Makes me want to go tomorrow.

Still seeing same guy! I think I'm surprised. He's been going on trips with his teens. I'm very happy about that. He was asking if I want a daughter one night when I was exhausted and couldn't get LO to sleep. Oh the timing. I was finding it hard to make decisions on moving while this relationship is going well, thinking we may move again in a couple years. We're both happy with the relationship and don't want to rush things either. So I will move on with moving plans for my family.
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Hi ladies,

I just joined the board a few days ago. I am 38 and unmarried, hoping to become a single mother by choice, currently TTC. I have had 7 unmedicated iuis, #2 was a chemical pregnancy. Just had my hormone tests and everything was right where it should be. Haven't yet done an hsg or lap, but am considering that if my next attempt doesn't work.

I am ovulation testing, I think my LH surge will be today, but could be tomorrow. I will be doing an at home iui with my midwives 24 hrs after my surge. Feeling calm, happy, not worried (taking a couple months break and a weekend trip to the beach helped with that)!

As far as my SMC choice goes, have dated, been married, and while I enjoyed those relationships, I eventually walked in all of them. I couldn't envision trusting or counting on them with the life and responsibility of a child, and definitely didn't want to fight into the future w them. I am dating now and have let my new boyfriend know about my plans before our first date. I let him know I am ready right this second for a baby (plus I must be mindful of my age) and would need to feel secure years into a relationship before deciding to have a child w someone. I told him I could be a package deal shortly and he responded saying it was nice to meet someone who knew what they wanted for a change, and was willing to go for it. Not sure if it will work out, but hopeful, and at the moment feel supported in my decision
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hi everyone!

prescottchels-- when are you going to start testing? and wow, for taking on the child care of kids at those ages! I just moved with my dd and currently staying with my parents. We're going to move out in a month or so though, temporarily until at least a few months postpartum. I'm still looking around areas outside the city for a place to settle down.

farmersmomma-- I'm due in mid-December.. so 20 weeks along now! Is this guy the guy you are planning to ttc with?

esg-- how are you? any update on ttc?

angeebaby-- welcome!!! good luck with this cycle It's nice to know that there are guys out there who can be supportive of this choice. I'm glad you have that support.

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Welcome angeebaby! So glad you're feeling support with the new beau.

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Well I'm not currently TTC. I'm still in the spacing stage. 5 years between first 2. Maybe 3 years for #3 . So will totally reassess when that longing comes back. That usually comes after sleeping through the night. Cause who wants to do that for too long?
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girlspn and farmermama - thank you both for your nice words! Happy about the guy, but definitely focusing on my current mission. Who knows how things will turn out when he realizes this is more than just talk! Hopeful still.

girlspn - excited about your little bun in the oven!!! A girlfriend just had her baby girl on the 4th, crazy that it is almost a month now! I just visited, hoping being around fresh baby smell will get my hormones all aligned!! hah

Been testing all day, come on ovulation! Spermies are waiting for me in the next room (the frozen kind, not the boyfriend's hah)! Lucky #8 !!

prescottchels - anxious to hear your results!!! I need everyone's news to help me move forward, whether its positives and do the happy dance, or negatives and pull those boots up and keep marching! I have considered foster adoption, I am just so worried that without my own first child, the thought of a disrupted placement (the state showing up to take a baby I've bonded with away) would just hurt me too badly to want to try again for any child. Maybe I am not being realistic, it is a fear though definitely. Gosh though, you're going at all angles! .. you have me thinking...

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FarmerMomma-yeah, I'm kind of an all or nothin' gal! lol ;-)
Sorry to hear about your house, but the potential of the new place sounds pretty awesome!! And blessings on your relationship!

Angeebaby-Welcome!! Good luck, fingers crossed for your IUI!!
I can speak from experience being in a relationship w/a man who was supportive of me becoming a mama, but beware-this is for you too, FarmerMomma-he thought he could change my mind about what I wanted, or how he was going to be involved (which of course I learned after it was too late...) and it backfired on him, and I walked... and I was ALWAYS up front with him, which he claimed to really appreciate...so anyway...enjoy it while you can!
I'm 37 and have been TTC off and on for #1 for YEARS so at this point I'm jumping in with both feet-all the way!! lol Somebody, just give me a kid! hehe I've been a nanny for 10+ years so I feel like I have a decent grasp on what it will be like to bond w/a baby and then have to walk away... I had a couple heartbreaks for sure w/those families but nothing I couldn't get over and loving on a baby is like nothing else.

girlspn-20 weeks! Wow!! So excited for you!!
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Prescottchels - funny you should mention the guy issues hah! Hopefully this is just a minor bump (I'm not that hung up on it either way really) but I am testing NOW so I can do my iui, and his response to me saying I'm feeling lonely is to ignore me, wth? I'm surprisingly calm and relaxed about this, it just reaffirms my decision to be a Smc. I will envision my future life as I fall asleep shortly.

Got my LH surge this evening, yay! Sent a text to my midwife, so hopefully between tomorrow night and Thurs morning we will be giving it a go! Excited!

I ran out of body soap and had a bottle of baby shampoo I used instead, had me smiling

Keeping my fingers crossed for you, just a few more days!
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As of 1 hr ago, I am now in the two week wait! Will start testing on the 11th

I will try my best not to symptom spot. I'm very sensitive to my hormone shifts throughout my cycle, so I would just drive myself nuts regardless
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Hi all.

Angeebaby, welcome. Hormone shifts are the reason I tested early. It was a pain going through the ups and downs. Good luck this cycle.

Prescott, you are just taking off right now! Cycle and homestudy. I hope this cycle is successful for you. When I was sizing up the items to use when I finally got pregnant, I had no cover story to use. It was scary but exciting none the less. Good luck with the two little ones. I was a nanny for a short time and I can only imagine the fun you'll have with them.

girlspn, you're almost there! That's awesome! How was the move? How is your daughter enjoying it with family?

farmermomma, sorry to hear about the house but it's good you have land to go to. I walked from our crazy mortgage company and we'll be building in the future. Much smarter decision, I think.

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no real TTC plans. We are gearing up to travel around the state for a while so I'll be saving money to cycle while we're going. I haven't chosen 100% which clinic I want to go to so there's still that to work on. I'm just working on getting us on the road and then I'll figure out a cycle afterwards. I wish I could cycle now but there's some cons in that as well.

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Angeebaby-Welcome the craziness of the TWW, which really ought to be called the Three Week Wait lol AF is due this weekend, but my cycle has been known to go longer, especially it seems when I suspect I might be PG lol

I've been testing, still negative, but temps are staying up so I feel hopeful and physically I'm exhausted and peeing.all.the.time... Whenever I ask the ethers if I'm PG I get an affirmative answer so I'm hopeful but I've been down this road a few times before so I'm trying not to get my hopes too up til I see 2 solid pink lines and that darn stick!

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I'm at 3dpo, had period cramps this morning, didn't want to get out of bed. Have been so busy since, so it wasn't on my mind much. Two kids bday parties and an almost breakup! This tww should fly! Hah
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lol Keep your sense of humor up! It helps a great deal!

Today is CD 29/17 dpo, and fertility friend predicts that AF will arrive tomorrow cuz my temp went down to the coverline this morn... Had some cramping today, but haven't started yet... we shall see...

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Hi Chels, thinking of you today. How are you feeling?

I still have these period cramps, but I have this at various times every month. Dull cramps, so there's no way to attribute them to a possible bfp. In a few days, my boobs will get so sore, I won't be able to even touch them with a towel. So I have to have something very out of this world to give me any sign.

Question for everyone, I do not chart for temps, but out of curiosity I took my temp this morning and it was 98.9. I took it at 930, but I got up at 8 to pee and have been just laying in bed since then. Is there any significance to that, or do I have to not get up and keep a running record to know?
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AF actually started late last night after I posted. (insert eye roll here).... Feelin crappy, depressed and confused... My BFF is an intuitive healer and I asked her if there was something I was missing or something I should be doing that I'm not and she couldn't come up with anything.... grrr.... It's so maddening not to know why things aren't working. This morn my temp went back up, instead of farther down and I had really intense itching last night in my feet. This morning it moved to my hands and then to my legs... like scratch your skin off itching. It was so weird!! And then it just went away... WTF... Everytime I go through this feeling of certainty that this time is "it" and then it turns out not to be, it makes me wonder how I long I should keep going, it's like torture-geez
I hope the rest of ya'll had a better day than me!
Foster care lady is coming in 2 days and I'm in such a pissy mood...lost all motivation to keep working on house projects or to even clean the house better before she comes. I know all these feelings will pass, but man it really sucks right now.
ETA-Angeebaby-one temp isn't enough to tell you anything. You really need to do it everyday before you get out of bed.
Fetility friend is free for the basic service http://www.fertilityfriend.com/?full=1 and if you're like me and you get up at different times every day this site will convert your temps so that you have consistent readings otherwise fertility friend gets confused lol .
http://www.mymonthlycycles.com/bbtadjust.jsp

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Prescott, did you ever do an HSG?

Angeebaby, you can't tell anything from one temp really. Especially not if you've been awake and moved around any. I used to keep mine right under my pillow on the shelf near me or else I'd be walking around before I would remember! For me, 98 would be high because I'm rarely ever above 96/97 sometimes dropping to 93 unless I'm ill or pregnant. I've always been that way but I can't tell for you after just the one. You can usually figure out your norms after charting for a few months.

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My wakeup times vary from 3-5am back when I was temping, so I would temp both times just for extra data. The temps are usually slightly higher after I'd gotten out of bed for any reason. I used FF and a bbt converter.

After a week or so of daily temping, you would get an idea of what's a normal bbt for you, and what might cause variations-- room too hot/cold, poor sleep, etc.

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prescottchels-- I'm sorry I hope you feel better soon..

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Hey Chels,

I am really sorry it didn't take this time. You have so many avenues for a child in your life right now, so don't give up. Your goal is the baby, not the particular avenue to the baby.

Refocus on the house projects. Remember they are going to look for safety and health, not decorating if you only have so much energy, focus on the kitchen and bath and clear out the kiddo bedroom completely. Keep me in the loop, I'm interested! What room are you focusing on this morning?
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