So exdh, new gf, 7 1/2 year old ds and 2 1/2 dd all coslept per my exdh.
I can tell I already don't like her...my xdh has never acted so carelessy about the kids best interest in regards to women he dates...she is definitely calling all the shots. He woudnt answer his phone last night and finally called me back and I heard the gf in the background say dd couldnt talk cause she was eating. Seriously and her tone was definitely irritated. We always call the kids when the other parent has them to say goodnight and he had ds miss bball practice too.
This is wrong on so many levels. I am not against cosleeping but I beyond livid because he threatened he would cut off support if I introduce d my kids to my new boyfriend. I would think a social worker would know that sleeping with her boyfriend s kids three jours after they meet is not in the best interest of the kids especially since they have only been dating 3-4 weeks. And my ds is 7 1/2!
It sounds highly inappropriate but sadly just because someone's profession would suggest that they should know what is appropriate and have healthy boundaries doesn't mean that they do. Doctors, ministers, social workers - they can be inappropriate and worse too, even though society expects them to know and do better
This woman is stepping over that is for sure. So it's time to get some things in writing (proper times to call etc) Yes while you have automatic rights to speak with your kids you can't control what he does with a phone when your not around. Better to just get this all handled asap