Hello all! This is my first post.
I am not a troll. I think it's important for me to state that because over time I will be sharing my issues for which I need advice occasionally and I don't want you guys to be wondering if I making stuff up. But I really got me a Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde kind of crazy X.
Anyway, moving on....
BACK STORY:
X lives in USA. I live in Canada with our only 2 year old child.
X rarely visited. Part of the reason we are no longer together. There are many other parts also.
FAST FORWARD:
I recently got a temporary court order stating that I have exclusive possession of our 2 br condo except for alternate weekends which is when I have to find other accommodation. These are the times X is visiting. I know for a fact that he doesn't stay there because rarely anything in the house moves. There is no extra garbage. Not even a toy moves from 1 angle to a different angle. X doesn't stay there because he is unable to look after the child alone. He always needs someone there with him.
I don't have any family or friends (thanks to X) whom I can stay with every other weekend.
I am a full time student for a few more months. So I don't have income. Right now I can pay for a guest suite AT the condo building because I am currently doing a co-op term which provides me with a small stipend. I have work experience and this time schooling is strictly for upgrading my skill set.
This term is over of 2 months. The temporary court order is also over at that time. What are my options?
1) Tell the judge that X should set up camp at his dad's (or mom's) house for him and the child;
2) ;Try to get welfare and move out on my own with child. (We did not discuss custody yet);
3) Offer to buy this sh*ty condo from X when I get a job and in meantime sleep in my car on those alternate weekends;
4) Suck it up and move with child to my parents' or friends' by promising them it's temporary until I get a job and hope that they accept;
5) Quit school now and get any job (I only have 3 months left of school after the co-op term ends)
Please help!
I am not a troll. I think it's important for me to state that because over time I will be sharing my issues for which I need advice occasionally and I don't want you guys to be wondering if I making stuff up. But I really got me a Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde kind of crazy X.
Anyway, moving on....
BACK STORY:
X lives in USA. I live in Canada with our only 2 year old child.
X rarely visited. Part of the reason we are no longer together. There are many other parts also.
FAST FORWARD:
I recently got a temporary court order stating that I have exclusive possession of our 2 br condo except for alternate weekends which is when I have to find other accommodation. These are the times X is visiting. I know for a fact that he doesn't stay there because rarely anything in the house moves. There is no extra garbage. Not even a toy moves from 1 angle to a different angle. X doesn't stay there because he is unable to look after the child alone. He always needs someone there with him.
I don't have any family or friends (thanks to X) whom I can stay with every other weekend.
I am a full time student for a few more months. So I don't have income. Right now I can pay for a guest suite AT the condo building because I am currently doing a co-op term which provides me with a small stipend. I have work experience and this time schooling is strictly for upgrading my skill set.
This term is over of 2 months. The temporary court order is also over at that time. What are my options?
1) Tell the judge that X should set up camp at his dad's (or mom's) house for him and the child;
2) ;Try to get welfare and move out on my own with child. (We did not discuss custody yet);
3) Offer to buy this sh*ty condo from X when I get a job and in meantime sleep in my car on those alternate weekends;
4) Suck it up and move with child to my parents' or friends' by promising them it's temporary until I get a job and hope that they accept;
5) Quit school now and get any job (I only have 3 months left of school after the co-op term ends)
Please help!