Join Date: Dec 2001
Location: northern ca, bay area
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i've been separated for about 2 months now, divorce is pending. but i have started dating someone. can anyone suggest any books that help children with this transition? dd is 2 years old, and at first saw my "friend" and a fun person, now it seems like she views him as daddy's replacement (which he isn't, but because i have full custody, he is around a lot more than my ex is)
also. the boyfriend is on a research assignment here for another year or so, then he will get a job at a new location. if he and i are still together then, would i be able to move with him, and still have custody of dd? on the one hand, i want to consider my ex's feelings about having his daughter move hundreds of miles away, but i also don't want to be limited to a certain geographical area.
is this unrealistic of me? is it illegal for me to move away?
does anyone have a similar experience? i need help!