well there is co-abode.com and there is [email protected]
and i am signed up for both!
if you change your mind i will need a roommate in the asheville area of NC this fall/winter. i will be putting my house up for sale next week and moving there with my (now) 19mo old son.
for you, in the meanwhile, one word: AL-ANON. and get there FAST. they can help you. it's free. it's an international group to help people who have loved ones with substance abuse problems. and for him, if he will go, AA or NA. look in the phone book for numbers for both. it's anonymous, too.
and yes get out of that neighborhood!!
btw.....moving out for a bit and giving you both some space does not necessarily mean giving up on your marriage. sounds like you both need some help, and of course that baby comes first!
if you need to, you can email me personally at [email protected]