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#1 of 2 Old 09-04-2002, 04:03 PM - Thread Starter
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Oh, it is so very miserable not get any breaks from my spirited 16 month old.

Dh was having rage issues and actually shook awake my sleeping daughter back in June just to piss me off. I had him arrested and made him move out. He lives 2 miles away now.

He is not very interested in seeing Dd on a regular basis and when he is scheduled to show up he is often late.

I can't stand any more of it and decided to stop his visitation. I asked him to provide a schedule that he can stick to, in writing or no visitation.

We both wish to stay married and have some hope of it working out but I feel he needs to complete his mandatory course in anger management and get into individual therapy before we can speak of reconciling. Meanwhile al these games with visitation.

Nothing sucks more than expecting a break and not getting one.

I am interviewing babysitters. I am so burned out.

Can anyone relate?

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#2 of 2 Old 09-06-2002, 03:10 PM
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I am right there with you. just wanted to let you know you are not the only one.
I will write more latter. I
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