Owen's dad sued me when Owen was about 8 months old, asking for visitation (and joint custody). He was asking, at that time, for every other weekend (Fri night to Sunday evening) and one night a week. I fought it and, in the end, the Judge said to start visitation small and work up to overnights (and it's got the clause "visitation as agreed upon by both parties"). He started with one hour visits. He only got up to 3 hour visits before he stopped. He has not had any visits since November 2005. Since then he has seen Owen a handful of times, always with me there (and never for more than a few minutes). He is constantly telling his family/friends that he wants visits with Owen, he misses him, he loves him. I'm the evil b*tch who won't let him see Owen, etc. But he hasn't asked for any visits since November 2005, so how could I have denied it? At one point he did mention he wanted to start seeing Owen again. I said great, please do a drug test first (lots of rumors flying around about him and I was not sending Owen with him until I knew for sure). I told him he could see Owen with me there and once the drug test came back fine he could start visitation again. Never heard back about it. I don't see a time where he ever takes Owen on visits. And I have no problem with that.
Steph, DH Jason (1-1-11), DS Owen (10-3-03) and DS Kai (10-13-11)