I am so frustrated right now I could punch a hole in a wall.
STBX and I are splitting, largely because of his affairs, and the fact that he's decided he's "in love" with his most recent affair (who has a husband and three small kids of her own). Right now he is still in the same house with us, because we need to save money. I'm moving with my own kids to Oklahoma at the end of June.
He sends me an email this morning that he's going to be gone overnight on Saturday -- with the girlfriend. I felt like throwing up, or blowing up at him, but instead I just calmly talked to him on IM about it and said, look. The kids and I are going to be gone 2,000 miles away from here in 6 weeks, and you'll be free to have all the overnights you want with whomever you want. Why do you have to rub my face in it? Why can't you just spend this time helping me with this move, and being with your kids?
It is just beyond me how this man who used to be so kind and sensitive has evolved into this cruel, selfish person who has no regard for anyone but himself, who just wants to rub the salt in my wounds over and over while saying, "Gee, sorry, I know this hurts, but I'm gonna do it anyhow."