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Old 10-04-2007, 06:02 PM
 
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i'm so beyond hurt and angry it isn't even funny. this was his last bit of leverage to use at the mediators because he knew that it was very important to me. now i have absolutely zero reason to compromise on anything. bad move...again.

i'm waiting to hear that they're expecting a baby of their own or something. honestly, nothing nothing nothing would surprise me at this point. :

If they are expecting, she'll be calling you crying in 2 years wondering if you've seen him, or trying to figure out how to prevent him from introducing her child to his next gf.

In other news - when are your chocolate yummies going to be for sale? Corporate gifting season is coming and I need ways to thank my referral sources.
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What's all this about chocolate yummies?
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go after him for everything. From what I understand in california divorces you get half of all assets so attack attack attack.:
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Read the latest blog post

I wish I had the words that you have Celeste. You are a wonderful writer.

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What's all this about chocolate yummies?
ben and i are the proud parents of a raw organic chocolate business!


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If they are expecting, she'll be calling you crying in 2 years wondering if you've seen him, or trying to figure out how to prevent him from introducing her child to his next gf.

In other news - when are your chocolate yummies going to be for sale? Corporate gifting season is coming and I need ways to thank my referral sources.
no kidding eh...?

hoping to have the chocolate for sale VERY soon.

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go after him for everything. From what I understand in california divorces you get half of all assets so attack attack attack.:
i'm scared but i'm going on the offensive.

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Read the latest blog post

I wish I had the words that you have Celeste. You are a wonderful writer.
thank you. i'm so freaking exhausted.
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Read most of your thread before it disppeared and continue to read your blog too. Another mama here who is hoping you get what you deserve (everything!) and r gets what he deserves .


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Man...
I'm seething on your behalf.

I'll buy chocolate from you.
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I'll definitely buy chocolate. nummers.
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Read most of your thread before it disppeared and continue to read your blog too. Another mama here who is hoping you get what you deserve (everything!) and r gets what he deserves .

o/t but man your dd is adorable! look at the cute arm rolls!!! my son used to have arm rolls and jowls! when hes about to get taller he always chubs up and his cheek fat wobbles when he walks!
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chocolate stuff is going VERY smoothly all of the sudden! it pairs nicely with red wine, or so i'm told!

and a plea for lots of prayers and positive thoughts on tuesday (11am); r and i have our appointment with the mediator. i want to get all the kid stuff taken care of, peacefully. this is the last shot at it before i go rabid with my lawyer.
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o/t but man your dd is adorable! look at the cute arm rolls!!! my son used to have arm rolls and jowls! when hes about to get taller he always chubs up and his cheek fat wobbles when he walks!

Thanks! : We call them her extra elbows, I'm gonna miss them one day!

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and a plea for lots of prayers and positive thoughts on tuesday (11am); r and i have our appointment with the mediator. i want to get all the kid stuff taken care of, peacefully. this is the last shot at it before i go rabid with my lawyer.


For you and your DC, I really hope there's no need for rabidity :

But I'm glad you have that option if you need it
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chocolate stuff is going VERY smoothly all of the sudden! it pairs nicely with red wine, or so i'm told!

and a plea for lots of prayers and positive thoughts on tuesday (11am); r and i have our appointment with the mediator. i want to get all the kid stuff taken care of, peacefully. this is the last shot at it before i go rabid with my lawyer.
Snarky, best of luck to you. I pray for you all the time. (remember me? Im the one whos husband also left her?) At any rate I miss being able to read your blog. It seems there is a block and invitation only readers. I dont blame you I had to do the same thing. Would it be possible to be invited. I sent you a message with my personal email if you are willing. I know you are super busy with everything going on and I know you probably dont have time to chit chat about legal advice with me and I totally understand. I just looked forward to reading your blog and gaining insite and stregth from your posts.

Keep your head up, you are a very strong woman. When your children are older and understand better they will admire you for that. Not to mention you are a great example for women like myself that are going through and have gone through this great injustice. TTYL!
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It seems there is a block and invitation only readers. I dont blame you ......... Would it be possible to be invited.
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Now I'll never know what happened to the chocolate, or P's pre-school, or how 'lil R is fairing with his teeth additions. Or how your Dad is doing. Or get to read about your fabulous weekends and live through them...

Anyhoo, you've touched my life.

Sending strong vibes and thoughts all the time, whether I get to check in on you or not.

Trying to do the right thing with three kids and a hubby. 
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I read your blog every day! I am really bummed. I hope you will keep us updated here. Good luck at mediation tomorrow. Is your lawyer part of that?

Best wishes tomorrow!
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Count me as another one who will greatly miss reading your blog. I've checked it every day for months and months now, without fail. Sending you good thoughts and best wishes for your family and fledgling business!

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Me too, but I imagine it isn't a good idea for it to be available for just anyone to read. You never know what might hurt you in a divorce or custody battle.

Good luck to you and your dcs. I won't violate the UA by saying what I wish for your stbx.

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Oh Celeste! Can you PLEASE invite me too! I have been following the other thread since November and I read your blog religiously everyday! I will PM you

ETA - Hey, I can see the blog... Well Celeste, if you ever decide to block it, please DO invite me!!
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Thinking of you today. Best wishes for a productive mediation.
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It's back! It's like a show that was cancelled and was brought back by fan demand!
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whew! I was a little freaked when I went for my daily dose of Celeste and it was invite only! I thought of asking her to invite me but didn't want to sound creepy. Hi, you don't know me, please invite me Glad it's back!

good luck in mediation today.

It turns out that moderation is the key to good parenting.  Too bad we aren't allowed to talk about that here.

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Thinking of you in mediation today. Don't sign anything you're not comfortable with - r has given himself plenty of rope with which to be hanged, should you be headed for court.
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BLOG IS BACK UP! JUST A GLITCH!


i'm off to mediation. *deep breath*
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yay!!!! it was up and running!! It totally made my day. I had no idea how many people were following this. Isnt she inspiring???
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Thinking of you this morning. I hope everything goes well today!!!

M : proud mama to B (16) : and G (8) and : x 2 :
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Thinking of you Celeste! Sending smooth mediation vibes.
(I almost wrote meditation-little different)
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Thinking of you too!

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i wasn't unhappy. i would've stayed married to him for the rest of my life, seems impossible now. i absolutely never would have suspected that r was capable of what he's done. no one that has known him would have ever suspected it. it was a complete shock. apparently regular sex (with someone else) can do a real number on a person. : it's like a new guy wearing an "r" suit.
i've only posted a few times in this forum section but count me as another regular reader!

I was so relieved to read your above quote. I feel exactly the same way-- like someone else came to live in my ex's body. The things he's doing now (starting with, but not limited to, dating an 18-yr-old girl) are completely mind-boggling to me and everyone who knows about it.

Maybe you should be running some kind of ads on your blog to earn some extra $$$. You have quite a following!
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