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#1 of 3 Old 10-08-2007, 08:07 PM - Thread Starter
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I am thinking about leaving DH and was wondering if anyone has any BTDT advice/support? It's been so tough and I just don't know what to do or where to turn right now. I have 16 month old twins that adore their Daddy, that's what makes it so hard. And how can I do that to him??!! But I know for me something has got to give/change. Maybe a temp seperation??!!

Thanks so much!

Mamma to identical twin girls (June, 2006 born at 30 weeks), new bundle of joy due August, 2011
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#2 of 3 Old 10-08-2007, 08:18 PM
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I left mine! It's been good and bad. It's also been a long time coming. (We've separated a few times but like a couple weeks here and there) I'm just starting the divorce process and I'm freaked out about it. But I also know I'm on the road to a better life.

It's a hard decision and I wish you luck!
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#3 of 3 Old 10-08-2007, 10:20 PM
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It's a hard decision to make, but a temp separation would probably good just to give you some time to think and plan without him around. I did that at first with my ex and it made things easier. I have always been pretty happy that I left. Life has been easier without him and I have been happy so it was worth it. I felt a little bad for my son at first, but he is better off for at least having one emotionally healthy parent.
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