After each visit, I email myself concerns during the visit. That way everything is time and date stamped and they can't say "oh she just wrote that last night." Taking suggestions from another thread, I go out and purchase a soda or something from the store right before and right after each visit so that if he says, "I didn't leave that early" then I can show my receipts to prove that he wasn't here and so I was able to leave the house. I don't know if it'll be helpful in court, but it certainly can't hurt.
My original attorney has come back from bereavement and it's amazing how much more relaxed I feel. She is totally AP and has worked in this system for about 20 years, so she is very well known by this judge. I think that will make a world of difference. She's very cut-throat and so much more confident that her associate, who seemed to not care or understand that ds didn't have attachment to his father. I feel like I can actually breathe again now that I have good representation. This is the first time in weeks that I'm not nauseated from the stress, and I think it's because I know I'm in good hands again.
Thank you everyone! The support here is amazing.