Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: listening to kriping churckets
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I know right now it's this big all important 'date' of sorts to you, but it's better if noone else recognizes it now, so that in a few years when you've forgotten, noone else will remember it for you and remind you. That may sounds silly, but as a single Mum whose 'date' is coming up soon (and it'll be 3 years!) i'm talking from experience.
Personally i have a few dates. The date i confronted him and everything fell apart. The date i escaped in the middle of the night. The date i crossed international borders and truly became a single Mum.
But now there are better dates to remember. The day i bought MY house. My very own, very first house. The day i bought my very own vehicle. The day my job became permanent full time with benefits. The day my DS called our new house 'home'.
Just remember, your big blank slate is YOURS. And you can do amazing things with it. You're doing great!