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oh those first weeks are so rough....I sometimes can't believe I made it out without a total breakdown.
Moving forward happens when you give the best you have to where you are. You can't make it happen, you can't force healing. Relax take it slow.
then soon the nights feel more calm than lonely...
not all of them but more of them...there is so much stress in those first few weeks...eventually things settle down.
I think I did have a total breakdown. My mom even kept the kids for me for a couple of weeks(I saw them every day) so I could get my head on straight.
Sabra~I have seen my X do and say so many things that just blew/blow my mind. I (and many, others that have known him his whole life,or the last 10 yrs)never thought he could/would be that guy. It is heartbreaking to go through that with the person who was suposed to be forever, and who is the father of your kids. The one you share everything with. It sucks. Give yourself time to greive and be kinder to yourself than you have ever been before. I seriously never imagined I would come out from this as well as I have, and I am at a point where I actually feel sorry for him and everything he is missing.
this quote caught my eye.... about our X's doing things we never thought they were capable of doing... even those that have known them their whole lives are shocked... my x, exact same thing. My mouth is still on the floor over what he has done to me, his friends and family... Its nice knowing we are not going through it alone... then again, I wish no one knew what I was talking about so they would not have to experience the pain I have. Good luck mama and hugs to you. if you ever want to chat just pm me.
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