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Sigh, I feel sooo upset. My little boys are there, and I can't do anything about it.
Well, you said yourself that you and your partner decided to move abruptly. Honestly, why should ur kid's father have to suffer and not see the kids because of that. He didn't ask for that. He went from getting them three days a week to getting them for a month straight and then what. I personally think that it would be VERY selfish on your part if you tried to cut his month short because you miss the kids. He is going to miss them when they go back, and that is going to be hard on him.
If he called them everyday, would you let him talk to him everyday? I think that the kids just need time to readjust to a new situation and their father needs time and space to help them adjust to the new "role" that he has been dealt out.
Sorry, this probably goes against everything anyone else will say here, but I always try to lay the devil's advocate too. I honestly feel bad for your ex in a way.