Originally Posted by lunar forest
weed through all the jerks and losers and the just-not-right-for-me guys.
I never had to weed through any jerks/losers when I started dating. And, the just-not-right-for-me guys were great learning experiences.
I truly believe that if you expect to deal with jerks/losers, somehow that is what you will find/attract.
Whereas, if you look at dating from a more positive perspective... an opportunity to meet people, learn more about yourself and what you want and just to have a nice time... you will attract/find quality people to spend that time with.