Well, I found out yesterday that since I've moved to Illinois my child support case is no longer open in Kentucky. The woman I talked to said that child support follows the child. So, I now have to file child support papers here. And, from childhood experience, I know that Illinois isn't near as concerned about child support in Kentucky. Thats why I started the case there.
His father called last night and was still so angry about the converstation we had the other day that he was yelling and cussing until the point that I was so upset I didn't know what to do but cry. He hung up on me because I was crying. Then, when he received the text message I had tried to send him earlier in the day explaining things, he calmed down and called me back. And, we actually had a decent conversation. He told me his concerns and I explained why I want to move. He thinks I want to move just because. Believe me, Washington isn't my ideal state to live in! Anyways, I don't really know where the conversation got us, but I do know that both of us got to say the things we needed to.
As far as having an attorney, I can't afford one at the moment. I don't think I need one quite yet. I don't think I will need one until I get married and tell him for sure we are moving. Nothing is set in stone yet. It really can't be since it is the military.
I do think that we made some progress yesterday, though.