No, I do not think it's reasonable. Not if you trust him. I did not demand to check out Rob's accommodations when he first got his own place, nor when he moved back in with his parents, and I do not foresee myself doing so at any time in the future. Of course, Rob has their best interests foremost in his mind & honestly does his best for them, and we have still the same standards for things insofar as the girls go. I'd probably be violently curious, but I'd see it as not my business unless he invited me over.
Sabra: Mama to Bobbie (3/02), Linda (1/04), Esther (10/05), Marie (11/10), Douglas (11/12), & Psalm (09/14; in Heaven)