are there any others that didn't come out until after being hetero until their 30's? i know there are..i'm not that dumb. but, i feel confused and alone. i'm just bad at meeting people. here's my background. i'm 31, thought i was hetero until a few years back until i realized i was attracted to girls, but never acted on it. i guess now that i think of it i've always been attracted to women. i just thought i was into guys. now i'm less interested in males and kind of repulsed. i'm now single with a 2 1/2 yr old boy. i guess i'm just wanting some support and friendship....sorry for the rambling.