I still talk to my ex-husband on the phone or in e-mail a couple times a month. Kate and I have have now been together for 3 1/2 years and are very happy. I never thought I'd be with a woman but I'm sure glad I am! :-)
My husband knows that this is something going on with me, and he's really supportive of whatever I decide. I've identified as bisexual for about 8 years, so the idea's not coming from left field. His suggestion is that we'd stay married, but I don't know how that would work. I love my husband dearly, and I'd love to be able to save that. Our marriage really doesn't have a lot of problems, which I think makes it all a bit more weird.
So, I have a question, and please know that this is no way comes from a place of judgement. I'm just really trying to find the authentic me and am considering everything at this point. Do you think that someone who identifies as bisexual could ever have a fulfilling life lone, monogamous partner? I have a hard time with gray areas in general and this is, by far, the biggest one I've ever considered. Ultimately I do want a life partner but it seems to me that if i were bisexual I would always be longing for what I didn't have, sexually. Can anyone relate to this or add something?
Thanks a lot,
I've went through this and I have come out the other side of it. I wrote a bit about it at the other thread. Feel free to PM me if you want to chat more about it... you can also grab my AIM in my profile.
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