my partner and I are using a gay friendly doula to help us get pregnant. She connects us with possible donors and we choose one. She then becomes the intermediary and brings us the sperm for doing a home insemination. Has anyone ever done anything like this?
In the upcoming months we will try this for the first time. I am just looking to connect with people who understand this choice. I have many straight friends and several gay friends who seem to think a sperm bank is the only option. I want something a little more personal.