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So, yeah, I did it.: And it only took 2 tequila shots to work up my nerve. A looong discussion ensued, and I'm still processing all of it today. I'm not sure what we're going to do, but I have to share with someone! There's no one IRL I can discuss this with right now.

It's us: DH , DS ; DD ; and me . Also there's the . And the 3 . I . Oh, and .
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Good for you, mama!

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Way to go!

Don't you feel lighter?

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Don't you feel lighter?
Absolutely. Today's just felt so much better.

Luckily hubby wasn't all that shocked with my announcement. We mostly talked about the kiddos and what we will tell them. Even with things in flux, I'm just so happy.

It's us: DH , DS ; DD ; and me . Also there's the . And the 3 . I . Oh, and .
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Brandi it sounds like it went well. I had to have that conversation myself about 9 years ago -- it's never an easy one.

I wish you well and that the path to take is clear and without troubles.

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Congrats! I did it myself not to long ago, well I guess I re-came out to him, but still... I hope you feel as great as I did afterwards!

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congratulations! it sounds like he is a very supportive man!

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Awesome and exciting!

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