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Oh, Wehrli. I'm so, so sorry. I'm thinking of you during this very difficult time.

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So incredibly sorry, Wehrli. We all know that these things happen...but that doesn't make it any less terrible. Hang in there.

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Oh--and as for banks--we are using a KD but (usually--for frozen) going through Pacific RS. I hate to say it, but I'm not at all surprised by the comment about their lackluster customer service. Really. Once I'm three months pregnant, I'll reveal more details.

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Oh Wehrli! I'm so sorry!!! That's the worst. Big big hugs to you both. Keep us posted and we'll all keep you in our thoughts.





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wehrli, I'm so sorry.

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wehrli - I feel awful for you! Many hugs your way. Hugs to DP too.

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Wehrli, I'm so very sorry for you and DP. Take care of yourselves.

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Oh wehril, I'm so sorry for you and your DP Please be gentle with yourself as you navigate this rough time. I will keep you in my thoughts.

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Wehrli- I'm sorry for your loss.

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Wehrli - I am so very sorry.

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I am so so sorry, Wehrli!

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Oh Wehrli, Im so so sorry. I know it doesn't help, but for some reason this wasnt the bean that was supposed to be your little one. Keep your chin up and we are all sending good things your way.

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Wehrli- I'm sending you lots of warm thoughts. I hope the two of you can spend some quiet time together.

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thanks everyone...

seraf has agreed to take over the thread... i am going to send her the roll call in a minute and then ask she take over as soon as possible... i just need a break from checking the board frequently, for a while. i'm sure i'll still be around but i just can't think of keeping up right now.
i found out that if they have to give me the drug (methotrexate) to induce termination, then we won't be able to try for a few cycles... i guess the chemical could still be in my system and attack any new pg. i'm really hoping for a natural end to this, for many reasons... so as of now, i have no idea when things are going to end and when they can begin again.

be well, all.

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Wehrli: all our love

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Oh, Wehrli, that makes it even worse that you wouldn't be able to try again soon. But you WILL and there will be success in your future. Take your break and recoup and we'll see you soon xoxoxox

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wehrli big I'm so sorry.
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There is a new thread titled Late April queer conceptions.

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Does that mean this thread is finished and we should move over there?

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Wehrli, I hope I am not stepping outside my place in posting this, but I was reading the Brill book (again) last night and I thought of you:

"HCG levels that aren't increasing as much as expected can indicate a pending miscarriage... However, this is an average rate of expected growth. It is not uncommon for a doctor to recommend a surgical termination of such pregnancies. It is very important to note that some healthy pregnancies that carry to term were pregnancies where the woman refused to get the recommended miscarriage and decided to wait and see what happened on its own."

Chapter 20, p. 404

I know you've probably done tons of research and again, I hope this doesn't offend you. I just wanted to make sure you saw this when making your decision.

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Please come join us in Late April queer conceptions!

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