Hello again folks!
I'm looking for some opinions on what the best insemination plan for me will be and am hoping that I came to the right place!
We are inseminating with a known donor for the first time this month. In the last 3 months I have done everything I can to prepare. I have never had EWCM so I started taking a supplement called FertileCM, drinking a ton of water and green tea, eating baby carrots in bulk around ovulation time and taking mucinex. Last month I broke down and had some full fat dairy (I was a vegan and will be again once finally pregnant). The dairy seemed to do more than the rest of that stuff combined. But even with all of that I just got more wet around ovulation time - nothing stretchy or egg white like.
However, when I have an orgasm I make a lot of arousal fluid and it is slippery and stretchy (could easily stretch 6 inches).
So, I am wondering if it would just be best for me to have an orgasm before inseminating. I have read conflicting information about arousal fluid. Some sources say it's good for sperm, others say it changes the PH of the vagina because it is more acidic than CM and thus not good for sperm. Thoughts?
Also, I know that a lot of people like to orgasm after insemination so that the cervix will dip down and pick up some sperm. Well I don't orgasm easily. If I put in an instead of cup after insemination would oral sex be OK or could her saliva still kill the sperm? If oral sex is out my only other option is a powerful vibrator and I'm a bit worried about all that shaking on the poor little guys.
Luckily, we should be able to try 3 or 4 times in the fertile window so perhaps I should try a variety of options.
Wow, I can't believe I just posted all of that on a public forum
... I just didn't know who else to ask!
Thanks in advance for your expertise!