Indigo: I'm glad that everything is looking good for your insem next cycle. You do IUIs, right? How many are you planning to do? Are you planning to trigger? Sorry if you've already answered these questions--I just can't remember.
Library: That's a hilarious dream!
2ez: I hope that Ms. Ovidrel treated you well!
QMama: It's exciting that your insem is coming so soon!
Happycalm: I've never felt implantation. Good luck staying calm!
Krista: It's good to hear from you. I'm glad that you are physically healing. I hope you follow in the footsteps of Wehrli and Beastie (who else?) and get pregnant again the first time you try!
Isa: I'm sorry you're in such a hard place right now. This process can be so challenging.
Brite: What a challenging situation. I agree with the other folks who say that it sounds like maybe that topic needs to be a conversation that takes place in person, not over text. I'm sorry you're having to deal with that.
Max: I'm so glad that your polyp removal is next week. Hooray!
AmandaMom: How are you doing?
Hi to everyone else!
AFM: No news, which is good news at this point. Our next ultrasound is Saturday, and I'm looking forward to that.
Hi guys! Just wanted to say hi and report that I've asked my South African fertility doll to work her mojo for all of you
Library, I have definitely had some wacky TTC/pregnancy dreams but I tend to forget them really quickly (bummer!). I do remember having the most vivid dream last year that I was pregnant with a little boy and it was so realistic. I could just feel my belly. Needless to say, when I woke up and realized it was all a dream I was sad and disappointed.
AFM, I am expecting AF any day now and she's on her way judging by the amount of irritation I felt towards DP today. I got up and surveyed the kitchen (in which she'd cooked last night) and it was a total mess. Even when she "cleans up," she doesn't really, i.e. she leaves a bunch of crap on the stovetop and dishes in the sink. Of course, if I were to say something to her it would make me feel like a b****. So I just took care of it myself. *grumble grumble*
Hope everyone is having a good Thursday :)
on 5/2/11! EDD is 1/3/12!
Checking in for a quick second (I was threatened by 2Ez) to say hello! I'm all settled in my new place in lovely FREEZING Oklahoma City. So far so good. I finally got to the box of all my fertility paraphenalia this morning which was sad, but I labeled it and put it in the garage for future use! Ive been keeping up with most of you through Library & Christy, and still of course sending as many good BFP vibes as possible to all! BTW, one definite perk of being up here in the frozen tundra is that I get to attend Library's baby shower. Let me just tell yall that the invitations were the most AMAZING things I've ever seen for a shower. Awesomesauce. I'll be your field reporter that day so you'll all feel like you got invited too!!
I miss a lot of things about El Paso (at this very moment, the top being the weather) but I can see a very happy life for myself here, and lots of visits back to see friends, food (oh the food) and of course my sweet fur babies.
Hope all is well here, best of luck friends!
HOLY EYEBALLS - - - it's the Miss Scarlett!!! (Nothing like a good old fashion threat to make a girl post. Peer pressure at its best!)
Library - dreams, oh, dreams! While I haven't had to pee on a stick in a public restroom, I always seem to dream about quads and people having quads - ALWAYS. From this forum, Scarlett was the first to have them, then Seraf (sorry girl), but a ton of my friends have them and myself of course. I am not sure who the lucky one is going to be, but I sure do pity them. The only other random preggo dream I've had was the time I dreamed I was preggo by DP's ex-gf! WTH? I know, I know, crazy. Thank goodness we're atleast friends, but that's just weird in itself. Glad I woke up from that one. (And I never told DP either. Too weird.)
KellySF - What is it with South Africa and fertility? Ha! You have the doll and a dear friend of mine has beads, which are very cool and stylish. Should I love you to "Waiting For AF" on the status updates? Just let me know. I am right there with ya on dp and her "cleaning" skills. Granted, I am somewhat OCD, but please! It makes me bonkers. Every day cleaning for her is tough. When she decides to CLEAN, then look out. She cleans places I didn't know existed...it's getting her to that point.
AFM - The Ovidrel went well last night as far as the shot. Afterward, I was trying to put the cap back on the needle, missed, and stuck myself in the finger - hard! Today, I am walking around with a sore middle finger. Oh, I am bloated and as big as a house still, but ready for my IUI tomorrow. I'll leave Memphis bright and early and make my drive to Nashville. I have to be there at 10am to sign for and verify the swimmers, then my actual insem is at 11:30. It takes them 1.5 hours to thaw, check and count. Last time, baby daddy had a count of 37.5 million, so I am hoping for the same tomorrow.
Me (35). DP to S (39) ; Mommy to DS: J (6), Furball Pupps: L (10) & S (1) and a new little baby boy arriving on/around Dec 2.
Parenting storys of the hour. Ds ripped off his diaper this morning through it off the bed climbed onto my back and pooped on my back this all happened in a matter of seconds those of you working on number one this is what you have to look forward to and lots of good stuff but lots of poop lots and lots.
LOL Good times, huh?
VENT: So today while DP was at work she sent me a text saying "Can I ask you a Question?" I knew it couldn't be good from the start since she had to ask me before asking. I responded yes and she proceeds to tell me that since we met with the Midwife she has been doing a lot of thinking, and she wanted to ask but wasn't sure how to ask: What if she didn't want me to try anymore and that she should take it from here? Meaning she carry the baby since it's not working with me. I know she means well, I know deep down she is only trying to avoid the pain I feel every month but I feel like she slapped me in the face and punched me in the gut all at the same time. I already feel so defected, so broken. I know it's irrational but women are made to make babies and I can't seem to make or keep one and it's so discouraging. Her question makes me feel like those feelings I hold deep inside are true. I don't know what to do, I don't know what to say to her? she doesn't do well with these kinds of things so no one jump on her case about texting I'm not upset about that. Advice? Suggestions? Kind words? Anything?
This definitely sounds like a conversation to have face to face rather than texting...I hope you are both able to talk it out. I bet she did mean well and the surprise and medium of the message probably just threw you off. Maybe after the surprise has worn off you can both come up with a ttc plan that works for both of you!
AFM—to continue in my self-pitying vein, it’s been a really hard day. One of my friends posted all of the pictures of her 2nd daughter’s birth (Charlotte Annelise, for those of you name-gathering) on facebook and while I was going to look at them and throw myself a little pity party I realized that an old co-worker has a gorgeous 7 month-old that I’d missed somehow and that a current coworker has just announced her pregnancy. I didn’t even know she had a boyfriend. It just feels like the whole freaking world is pregnant and that the only ones of us who aren’t are here on this board. Which is ridiculous but I can’t help it. And I want to blame DP for making me wait, even though I know it was the right decision financially, but she's been having such a tough time at work that I can't even do that without feeling like a jerk.
It's hard being around new babies or pregnant mamas while ttc but I always took comfort in it for some strange reason. I love being around new babies and I always imagine that being around pregnant women has to have some positive fertility effect on me
Hi guys: Just popping in to keep up and try to feel connected so I don't drown in my own despair. My brain is still a foggy mess but my body is finally starting to ease a little out of the miscarriage. I'm trying to hold on to the hope that many women get pregnant soon after the miscarriage because their body is in some state that makes it so. And praying I'm not on the bad side of a statistic again and I'm not one of those people it doesn't happen for...
Good to hear from you!
fx to all those getting ready to test/insem/start a new cycle! :)
afu, dp had peak on the monitor this morning although she feels she ovulated yesterday. she also saw her acupuncture dr yesterday who says her pulse is good. :) anyways, we are right on track for cd1 being march 25th (that's my prediction). i forgot to mention that our re also tested dp's amh and it came back at 2.2 which is "normal". so we wait patiently for af to arrive (can we be moved there please?). in the meantime, we have our trip to get ready for. our doggie is already signed up for boarding, i need to order some pounds and euros (we have a short layover in amsterdam) and a travel plug. dp and i have decided to buy an ipad2!! of course she wants to rush out and get it tomorrow...lol! i'm also researching an ultra wide lens for our canon 50d.
my sil is measuring 38 weeks at 35 weeks and babe still hasn't turned. if things stay the same by her next appt, the midwife wants to schedule a section. :( please send baby turning vibes across the pond (or across the north sea in the case of nos).
The midwife won't consider a breech birth? Sending baby spinning vibes! And good to hear everything is moving along smoothly with you and DP!
AFM: CD 7 for me. AF is finished and I'm ready to start poas in a week or so! I didn't get the fertility monitor yet (buying it from a friend) so I'll just use internet cheapies for this cycle to see if I can see the surge. I'll use the monitor next cycle. It looks like we'll likely wait this cycle and next before trying. I want to make sure I'm O'ing and I also want to wait for my Day 3 FSH results next cycle. KD is on board with that schedule so we're good to go in May or June.
I started taking chinese herbs this cycle and I'm afraid that they have caused DD some gas/gastro issues My acupuncturist said they would be fine while nursing and she specializes in fertilty and women's health so I trust her but it really seems like they may be too strong or something. I've sent her an email and I stopped taking them as of today so will see what happens. Poor thing was clearly in physical distress for most of last night - DP and I were up with her in the tub at about 3am to try and soothe her.
Hey my March ladies!
Just checking in...
Rainbow-I can only add my little bit to the wonderful support you've been getting here. This process is hard on both partners. I can only tell you how many "discussions" that DP and I have had. She's 40 and has recently had a hysterectomy. It's difficult because she sees my pain and doesn't know how to help. It sounds like your DP is really just trying to take the pain and discomfort from you....maybe not the best mode of communication but she tried. If I've learned anything in this whole thing it's patience. And I don't start the 2ww until tomorrow!!
Krista- I'm new to the forum but I am glad you're back! I've had 2 miscarriages and the hardest part was to accept that there was nothing I could have done differently and to get back to it. Congratulations for having the courage!!!
As for me, DP woke me up at MIDNIGHT last night (actually this morning) to hit me (hopefully for the last time) with the Ovidrel. I barely remember it! We were sleep-sticking - ha ha! I have my IUI tomorrow at 12:15 (I'm right behind ya 2ez). I'm so nervous because the doc told me yesterday that I have a low AMH (.5) for my age (33---34 in April). I tuned out after that news so DP had to take over. We don't have the money for IVF and IVF was that last thing I heard the doc say. I'm nervous and sad. DP drove me to Target today to look at baby stuff in an effort to get me excited again. I really just don't want to do this all over. My heart pounds just thinking about it. These shots have done crazy things to my body and personality. It probably didn't help that I was out sick for the past 2 days with Tonsillitis and am now on a ZPAC making me even more nervous because I hate medicine ESPECIALLY if it could hurt my chances. It really was just bad timing. I tried the natural remedies but with a 101 temp and a throat that was swelling to the point of not being able to eat, I had to tap out.
Well, IUI tomorrow at noon, acupuncture at 5p and again on Saturday.
Let's do this ladies!!! THIS IS OUR TIME!!!
Library- I definitely had a dream where I stole someone's baby in the supermarket and took off running...
AFM- sick with a nasty cold and can't take any good drugs because of the 2ww. sad.
Me 31, DW 34 Married since 2008. Mom to Teddy, born July 2012.
Mama (37) to a sweet 4-year-old daughter, a baby girl born 1/18/12 and wife to a fantastic woman.
qmama--don't worry! I feel "pains" and twinges before, during and after ovulation. You might have felt the final plumping up of your eggs. It doesn't mean you missed your O. 9am tomorrow will probably be just perfect. Good luck!
Me (39), DP (45). Together since 04, married in June 07.
TTC 10/10 to spring 2012. Fall 2012--moving on to foster-adopt.
Good Evening Everyone,
Just wanted to stop in quickly to say thank you for all of your words of support and encouragement. I do want to make one correction because I saw it written a couple of times. I have had 3 miscarriages in total aside from the pregnancy with Angel DD which makes 4 pregnancies in total and we have been trying since September, but we recently switched to a KD because we heard the fresh is better than frozen. I don't want my comment to make it seem that I am not appreciative of all of your support I just want to make sure that those precious babies don't get swept under the rug because I know they are out there somewhere watching over myself and DP and hopefully playing with each other and driving the other Angels nuts with their shenanigans LOL!
As far as the conversation DP and I are still discussing it. Yes I agree that texting wasn't the best way to go about things, but you kinda have to know how things operate between us to fully understand how weird we are with things like this. And it has been discovered that DP is starting to have motherly urges and has been considering carrying which is where the conversation came from on top of her just wanting to take all the pain I feel away.
We have decided to look into a RE for further testing just to make sure there is nothing that hindering our TTC efforts since our Pre-Conception check-up including bloodwork was normal last year before we started TTC again.
I hope everyone has a GREAT evening, and once again thank you for all the love and support I appreciate more than you know! You guys know more things about me than most people in my closest of circles in my life and that means a lot to me!
Baby Dust to all that need it!
Me (26), DW (26) Mommies to Riley Sophia born 6/12, my Angel DD Imani Joi, and 1 furbaby ... On our Quest for Hope
Thanks for all the positive thoughts ladies!! We've done 2 insems and doing the last one tomorow morning, leaving work to do it lol and i have to go back afterwards. I really wanna do everything right this time. The O test i took today the line was almost as dark as the test line does that mean its positive? Either way I figure I will O soon. Oh this is gonna be a long 2 weeks! My partner and I haven't told anyone we are trying this month, we told our close family and friends last month but when it turned out I wasn't pregnant it made things a lot harder on us, mostly me. I was quite the wreck. But we've done a lot more for our chances this month so I'm staying positive, hopefully like everyone's pregnancy tests will be!!!!
Crystal (24) DP to Christina (27) together since 7/23/08
Baby Cohen was born 7 weeks early on 12/12/11
RainbowBrite~ Thank you for the clarification. I know I didn't mean to be disrespectful of what you've been through, I just didn't realize. And yes, that might make a difference with regards to making your conception decisions. Still, I think you're right in trying to have as many tests as possible, and to have important conversations like this in person. It still sounds like your DP is wonderful and wonderfully supportive and I'm sure you'll have some shennanigans in your own house sooner than you think!
Scarlett~ Hi!!! Can't wait to see you at the shower (if not sooner! Get it? SOONER!!)
2ez~ While you're getting fondued in Nashville, please stop by the Pancake Pantry and have some sweet potato pancakes for me. Thanks!!!
Kelly~ I'm sorry your baby dream was so upsetting. I had plenty of those as well, it's not fun.
Carmen~ Good luck catching that egg! And in soothing your babygirl's tummy. I can see why the herbs would be so traumatic.
Qmama~ I'm sure you'll be okay with your insem tomorrow. Catching the egg is SO stressful though. Be good to yourself and we'll keep everything crossed!!!
Irish~ Haven't met you before. WELCOME and good luck!!!
Crystal~ EVERYTHING CROSSED for you! It will be hard to keep it all to yourself, but it can also be nice when you don't have to tell anyone anything negative OR you get to surprise them with exciting positives. Best of luck!
AFM~ 6 hours til Spring Break!!!!!
Library whoo break !!!!
Figures crosses for all the iuis happeng
Afm. Bought more sperm the guy on the phone said I picked a good one his numbers where great
Good luck EZ! I am not inyour time zone, but you're probably driving in now! So funny that it takes them an hour and a half to get the swimmers ready, I'm always rushing to get them inside as soon as they're warm.
Crystal, I feel you on not telling people every month. I told in the beginning because I have a big mouth and I get occasional questions about, when am I trying again and when will I find out. I always appreciated the concern, but I like that not so many people were asking at any one time.
Brite, I was thinking this was your first try this go-round. I really think several tries are in order tho, before things are not working.
I cut off all my hair.
And Sara went through all our "next baby clothes."
Brite- I understand how you feel, DP has made some comments that lead me to believe she doesn't trust in my body anymore. We saw a therapist to discuss our feelings and now DP says to me everyday "I know you can do it". That feels good to hear. In your situation, the two of you may consider coming up with a plan, especially if she wants to try someday too. You may try at the same time (twins!), or decide to take turns, or maybe you would rather she wait until you say it's her turn. I'm sure hours of conversation are coming your way. Good luck!
ez- You are not supposed to cap the needles after use! Just put it directly in the biohazard box. Sorry you were poked but hopefully it won't happen again.
TTC#1 since Sept, 2009; in w DP, + two young dogs. Started adoption process May 2011. Baby boy born on June 18, 2013 and placed with us.
Krista- I'm glad you are back here, let me know if you need more that just a virtual hug. We are close.
Escher- Good to hear no news is good news!
TTC#1 since Sept, 2009; in w DP, + two young dogs. Started adoption process May 2011. Baby boy born on June 18, 2013 and placed with us.
Happy—how goes the 2ww? When are you planning to test?
Library—so far I only ever get period dreams, on the day it’s supposed to come. I don’t like them, but on the other hand, it does soften the blow when AF shows up a couple hours later. Hopefully this means that when I get a pregnancy dream it’ll mean something, right? Is it poor form to start a guessing pool on what day you’ll have little Aspidistra?
Seraf—Do you plan on finding out if it’s a boy or girl beforehand, or do you wait until they arrive? I love the haircut!
Indigo—I’m so excited for your nuptials! When is the big day?
Kelly—thanks for the mojo—I’ll be storing mine up for May. Also, as a bad kitchen-cleaner, I apologize for all of us. It’s harder than it looks for some reason…
Hi Scarlett! Thanks for checking in! I can’t wait for your field report—I hear it’s going to be FABULOUS!
2ez—ouch! Your poor finger! Does that mean it might get preggo, too? How did your insem go? FX! (even the ones with trigger shots..)
Carmen—I think if she were here it would be different, but all I see is happy-families pics on facebook. I’m feeling better about it today, though. I hope your poor DD acclimates quickly—it might just have been the sudden addition that got her in a state.
Irish—how did your insem go? I hope it works! IVF is so crazy expensive—it just doesn’t seem fair. Everything crossed for you!
Vegan—that’s the worst, isn’t it? But it’ll all be worth it soon!
Qmama—You should be fine—the smiley is supposed to show up before you ovulate, not WHILE you ovulate—9 is probably right on time.
Crystal—good luck! Next time (in, what, 2 years or so?) you might try the smiley face OPKs—they’re more clear than the test lines for exactly when you O. FX!! I’ve been telling people slowly—I didn’t at first but then couldn’t explain why I was miserable and had nothing interesting to talk about—either I was sad about a BFN or only thinking about babies. No one has been bugging us about it, but I feel like I can talk to people if I need to, so it’s turned out well.
Brite—I’m sorry that you’re even having to have these conversations—hopefully your babies are up there finding the perfect little one to come and take their place down here. Good luck talking through it—I’m sure you’ll come to a good solution. Also, DP and I try to have all of our arguments through email for some reason. It gives us more space to think things through, so I totally understand your texting thing.
AFM—feeling better. It’s sunny today, and work is good and I am so looking forward to a weekend. I think that post-vacation stress is probably what was getting to me before. Going to finish the new baby’s quilt this weekend and send it off with good wishes and then put any jealousy out of my mind as best I can.
And so are the boys!
Seraf & Smiling - I'm so happy for you both!
Grace - That poop story was incredibly disgusting! I can't wait!
indigo - I closed my eyes and took a moment to think of your SIL and her baby turning. Hopefully that helps!
Isa - I'm glad you're feeling better today. I can totally relate to your sadness about having to wait. I hope your break goes by quickly!
Krista - Sending many hugs and healing thoughts your way.
escher - Thank you for thinking of me.
2ez - I'm also pretty OCD about cleaning... but thankfully DW is too. Sending you many conception vibes!
and to everyone else.
QOTD - I read the dream question and a few responses right before bed last night, so of course I had a crazy dream. I dreamed I was ovulating and needed to find sperm ASAP. Sue wanted to take this cycle off, but I didn't want to wait (actually true), so I was going to sleep with one of my gay guy friends. Thankfully I woke up before that happened! Ew!
AFM, just trying to enjoy the break from TTC and working on figuring out our next steps. We've talked about overnighting sperm from our close friend in Phoenix, but we've also discussed talking to Sue's brother, who lives nearby. We may simply go back to using frozen again, but after spending $1600 on my period this last cycle, we'd like to find a cheaper way to get knocked up. With all the tests and swimmers and shipping and doctor bills, we've already spent nearly $9000 and have nothing to show for it. We budgeted $15,000 - $20,000 ahead of time, but it's still a shock when we look at the financial statements. After doing the clomid and two ultrasounds and a trigger and an IUI at the RE's last cycle, Sue just wants to try something more natural. I just want to get effin' pregnant already.
*****In Love since 2006*****
TTC #1 since March 2010
hugs amandamom!! many hugs. we budgeted for this too and had many unexpected procedures pop up that were not covered by insurance for dp. it does suck. i hope you find a way that works out and doesn't cost $$$$$$. oh and remember to keep notes on all of it! you can deduct it! dp did last year and got a nice amount back. :)
afu, pee stick still showed high estrogen (good) and lh surge is definitely gone (good). i talked to dp's ovaries and told them we needed a nice strong ovulation next cycle too. lol. she thinks i'm silly. dp has another acupuncture appt tomorrow and will set up some massages just as soon as she remembers to call our massage therapist.
ez, happy insem day! i hope everything went well. :)
prettyisa - april 11 is the big day! wooo!
my sil thought she was in labour 2 nights ago but it turned out to be nothing. we are pretty excited to be meeting a new niece or nephew. even ds1 is somewhat excited and thinks auntie w is having a boy.
Rainbow -- coming out of lurkdom here to mention a few things: First, DW had four losses, also, before we conceived DD. I send you so many hugs because I know how painful that is. We saw an RE after the fourth loss and he actually recommended IVF coupled with a process called PGD, where they check the genetics of the embryos for a few of the chromosomal abnormalities most commonly associated with early pregnancy loss. Without that, we would have continued our path of loss upon loss. Getting pregnant was not the issue, it was just the high percentage of abnormal embryos. I don't mean to suggest that there's anything horrible or wrong about YOU, but I think that sometimes that RE perspective can be so helpful and I encourage you to think outside the box. It was strange for us to think about IVF since there was no problem getting pregnant, but when he explained it, it became crystal clear that that would be the key to us STAYING pregnant. And it was and worked in one try.
Also, I know you posted a while ago about shipping fresh sperm. We did that and conceived (then m/c) and had our swimmers checked under microscopes, etc. The shipping worked VERY well for us, the count was still quite high after shipping across the country overnight and then heading in the next afternoon (about 24 hours after donation) to our doc. I've heard of folks who keep a small bit around for up to 96 hours and the swimmers are still moving. You can check in a microscope. I clearly don't think the now old KD that you were using is the answer (!), but if you find someone else, fresh shipping can work quite well, though it is not necessarily tons cheaper than frozen (you do, however, get much more!).
Brite: I too thank you for clarifying. I think with all that was going on with me, I might have picked up that you had earlier losses but I forgot. Honestly, you've been through it, girl and I know everything little piece of information (or advice) is challenging in the TTC process. Only you, know YOU best. And only you, know your DP best.
I didn't get whether you have done any type of testing or possible determination for your four previous losses. I know Imani Joi was a different process, but what about those 4 previous losses? So knowing all that about you and what has happened for you and DP, does it make more sense why she might have asked you the question? Regardless, I know it can still hurt to think it's YOU that's the problem. The bottom line, sweetie, we've all got a lot of factors working against us. From environment, to genetics, we have a challenge. And to top it off, did you know that the human species is the most difficult species to get preganant? WTF, I say!!! So for all the challenges you experience, none of them change what a beautiful and wonderful person you are to want to be a mom and how you were a mom for Imani Joi. I wish I had the magic 8 ball or crystal ball to tell you what path you will take to be a mom, but deep down, I know all of us here WILL be moms.
PS Thanks to all since calling me out in personals. It just really helps in the healing process to know people are there and thinking about you. Bleeding and cramping is minimal, now the clock starts ticking once more. Higher Power, give me the strength to move the mountains you have placed before me!
me (40) DP (47) TTC since April 2010, 5 IUIs & 6 at home w/ fresh
Short luteal phase, septum resection in Sept 2011
Jan 2011 a BFP! Try #11 8w2d (blighted ovum)
April 2011 BFP! Try #12 9w2d (no heartbeat)
Nov 2011 BFP! Try #14 8w0d (twins, no heartbeat)
June 2012 -- Moving onto IVF with PGD
Howdy all!!!! I'm sorry that I am so bad with personals, just busy in life I guess. As for me, We had our consultation with Kaiser yesterday and we LOVED our RE. He was amazing. I am a little OCD when it comes to things and he was really laid back about the whole thing. He is very confident that we will get preggers quick. He even told me that I could drink a beer, ha. He said that we could definitely start trying this month so we will be waiting for about a week and a half to O and then off we go to do our first IUI. We just purchased our sperm from the donor we chose. Fingers crossed that all will go well!!!! Baby dust to you all!!! Will you please move me to waiting to O. Thank you!
hey miss scarlett! good to see you around these parts! :) i want all the skinny on library's baby shower!
brite, i agree with krista about testing. there is an entire m/c b/w panel that can be run to rule out some of the more nasty genetic causes for recurrent m/c. i know that is not always definitive - my brother and sil went through 3 m/c and one ectopic before getting pg with our niece (who will be 3 in june). on this current pregnancy they had one m/c prior. they had every test under the sun and no issues were found. the positive news is that they were able to have these 2 successes. my dp had the panel done after i was diagnosed with factor v leiden (i had a post-partum blood clot) and she also has fvl and another mutation called mthfr. ours are all mild mutations but those can be major and definitely cause m/c. and you would never know you had either w/o the blood tests. anyways, i also wanted to send you some hugs and peace and light.
escher - we are doing IUI. last 2 pregnancies we did 2 IUIs but this time our re is saying 1 is enough. we trust her and it will give us 2 tries with the boys donor.
prettyisa- thanks i was wondering about those smiling faces OPKs. I'll keep it in mind for in a few years ;)
seraf- the hair looks good!!
We didnt end up doing the last insem today, donor flaked without letting us know. I could just do this to him! But hopefully the spermies we used the past few days are still alive and well!!
Crystal (24) DP to Christina (27) together since 7/23/08
Baby Cohen was born 7 weeks early on 12/12/11
Crystal--everything crossed for you! That's too bad that your donor flaked. Argh! Hopefully the swim team is still alive and thriving.
Seraf--great cut! How are you feeling? Hopefully enough symptoms top remind you that you're pregnant but not enough to make you feel lousy!
cnmk--how exciting! It sounds like everything is lined up and ready to go. Glad you like your RE too. Anytime your doc has a calming effect on you when ttc, that's a good thing!
Krista--still holding you up. Thanks for the LPD advice too. I really feel like I have a plan if this cycle doesn't work.
Escher--Good luck with your upcoming ultrasound! Can't wait for the scoop!
Kelly--You have a SA fertility doll too?! I was given a 'girl' figure several years ago when I was ttc. It brought me an amazing daughter. When I read your post, I remembered that I had it, so I have now dragged it down from my shelf and am doing a nightly belly rubbing ritual with it. I need all the mojo I can get! Hope AF came so you can get this show on the road...
Miss Scarlett--Hi, nice to meet you. I wish you lots of patience til you are ready to ttc again!
carmen--I love what you said about getting good fertility vibes from being around pregnant women. I will have to try shifting my perspective on those days when I am really struggling and it seems that there are pregnant women around every corner. I hope your dd is feeling better too!
maybe--Is your partner any closer to testing? The tww is hell for everyone involved! Everything crossed!
happycalm--So excited to hear how things go! Are you gonna hold out til 13dpo?
isa--glad you had a good vacation. And a very warm welcome to the world of the dildocam!
sara--how's things with you. glad you got your paperwork and are one step closer!
Library--you are so close I can't even believe it! Woohoo, it'll be so great for you to finally meet your your daughter! And thank you for the unbridled optimism! If I can't feel it, it's good to know that someone else has it for me.
2ez--how did the insemination go? That sucks that you have that crazy long drive. I hope it gave you an extra opportunity to chill and let your body work its magic.
Brite--hugs to you. Still thinking about you and hoping you and dp are gently navigating through this rough patch.
Indigo--ever closer to CD1! Sounds like dp is doing all the right things to get her body ready.
Nosreves-It's a pleasure to meet you. I am terribly disappointed that France is so backwards with same-sex parenting.
And to all others out there needing babydust, support or just lurking, good vibes to you!
AFM--go ahead and move me to "Waiting to Know"! I had a lovely insem yesterday with my most awesome doctor. I was able to pull myself together after Thursday night's unexpected LH surge and mittelschmerz. I am so hoping that this is the one. Everything felt so good yesterday that it's hard for me to imagine that this isn't going to work. It was definitely my best IUI to date. 2ez, I'll be looking to you to hold me back when I start getting the urge to POAS around day 10, since we are insem buddies! If I can only hold out to 13dpo
Mama (37) to a sweet 4-year-old daughter, a baby girl born 1/18/12 and wife to a fantastic woman.
more good luck being sent out to all in the tww - i want to see some march bfps!! :)
afu, dp had another acupuncture appt this morning. her dr said her core energy is much better than it was when we were ttc ds2 and she really believes if we manage to insem next cycle before we are on a plane (!!) that we will have a bfp. truth be told ever since dp said she wanted to try in march i have had a really good feeling about it. soooooo, now we have to be patient and wait for af in a couple of weeks.
today we took the boys to a petting zoo/ranch that has rescue animals - roosters, deer, pigs, buffalo, bears, assorted wild cats, ducks etc... they both had the best time feeding the animals. :)
Thanks on the haircut.
I'm really well. I feel mean, so I know I'm pregnant. I still need to notify the bank and, I suppose, find a doc and make an appointment, find a midwife, yeesh.
Sara is jumping up and down for AF to come. She is so stinking excited. We are ordering sperms on Monday. She will be doing ICI because the doc specifically wrote on the paperwork that she could only have ICI sperms. Grrr argh. Oh well, she's young and hopefully fertile and hopefully her cycle will be shorter next month, after typical 30 day cycles she's on CD 35.
Oh yes, now for some screaming.
Hey ladies~ Hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend and remembers to spring forward tonight. I'd not heard a thing about it all week, so I was glad to be reminded!
CNMK~ Glad you're feeling relaxed (I'm jealous of your beer, for real!) and good luck catching that egg! Waiting to O was always the most stressful time.
Crystal~ UGH UGH UGH!! I'll hold the donor down while you pound on him. How cruel! But still, it only takes one swimmer, so let's hope it's in there doing its job!
Qmama~ Everything crossed for you!! You've got lots of 2ww buddies, so I'm excited for all the symptom reports.
Indigo~ What an eventful few weeks you have coming up! How awesome would it be to learn about your newest baby just as you're getting married. Wow!!
Seraf~ I'll bet Sara's freaking out for sure. I hope all goes well.
AFM~ Just so happy I have this week off so we can get things done!!!
Prettyisa- Waiting is the hardest thing about ttc. Sometimes what comes after the wait is far more rewarding than what might have been if you didn't wait. Have patience things always happen for a reason. I actually think you're right about the whole world being pregnant except for the ones on this board. Hopefully soon we can change that.
Krista- It must have been so hard to go from such a high to an extremely low. We're sorry to hear the news and hope that soon you and SO will be back in the game. Take it one day at a time.
QMama- I know the feeling of the unplanned happy face all to well.I can honestly say the smile gets really annoying when unprepared. I think you still have a great chance at a BFP because ovulation usually occurs 24 hours after the first positive OPK. We are Keeping our FX for you.
Brite-Only you and DP know how to communicate with one another. I'm certain she wasn't trying to upset you and I actually understand her position. It is really hard to watch yous SO go through so much pain and anguish in a process as precious as TTC. We hope it all works out for you and DP. We also do believe you have some very special angels guiding your destiny. Keep your heads up and don't give up the fight just yet. Perhaps a few more conversations will clear things up.
Crystal= DP and I are also going through this process alone. We just do not want the added stress of having to explain why our insems haven't worked.The ladies on this board have been our support and hopefully we can do the same for you and your partner. KMFX for you.
Library- Hoping you had a wonderful baby shower with lots of gifts. In no time you will be meeting your wonderful bundle of joy. Thanks for reminding me that I lose an hour of sleep tonight.
Seraf- Nice cut! Good idea because you might need to spend more time on the babys hair soon. Tell Sara the more she pushes AF the longer before she visits. I really do not think she likes to be controlled. Congratulations on your BFP
Update: We have not been able to be active on the board for a while due to some very emotional family times. We have had time to soak in all the horrible news we have heard over the past month and come to grips with what is now and forever will be our reality. On a happier note we are waiting to O and our swimmers are in route. We should be insemming around the 16th. Wishing every one ttc this month lots of luck and baby dust.
Me (29) in with DW (40)
DD (12) and DS our special needs baby (4) placed 03-01-10
Our furbaby Bella (Yorkie)
Layla Janae 11/22/11