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#301 of 349 Old 03-28-2012, 08:07 AM
 
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mrs, you sound pg to me... FX!

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GOOD ANSWER, wehrli! 


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lisdea - so sorry to hear AF arrived, i was holding out so much hope for this cycle for you!  greensad.gif

 

pokey - that's a great progesterone number!  definitely better to get your body to do it on its own, rather than have to deal with the supplements.

 

gelly - hope you had a fun birthday celebration with your dw!  are you planning to poas before your beta?

 

rs & cannany - thinking of you both today, with your beta draws.

 

carmen - how completely unfair to be sick in vegas!! hope you get to have some fun before you leave!

 

mrs - i was never good with charting, so i'm not sure ... but i love wehrli's response too!!

 

afu, my first beta draw was this morning.  the number was 520.  it's hard not to compare it to the first beta in my last FET cycle (932), so i'm feeling a big guarded and worried still.  repeat beta will be friday, i feel like i'm holding my breath until then.  redface.gif


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Junebug - is that beta good for this point in your cycle? Does your RE have any opinion on it, or is it just a "wait and see if it increases" game ? 


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Mrs- I am LOVING your optimism this cycle!!! I am sure that your extra high temp is due to the two little babies who are in there snuggling in for the next nine months!!!

 

Junebug- Your beta sounds good. It is really close to the averages you listed yesterday. I am sure that you have a happy little baby growing in there that you will get to meet in about 36ish weeks.

 

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Amt- I am so sorry for what your donor did to you guys. hug2.gif

 

AFM- Today I had one of those moments where I was watching a mother with 3 young boys who were misbehaving and throwing fits and she seemed at her wits end and I just thought, 'what am I doing!?!?!?' Have any of you had those moments? It feels really weird to me because I really want to be a parent but I think sometimes I live in this fantasy that things will be how they are now and we wont have those kind of kids or be those kind of parents. Today it just kinda hit me that this could in fact work and we could have one of those kids or be that kind or parent and it scares the s&*! out of me. I am sure this will be a fleeting feeling and I hope I am not alone in this. 


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My beta was the same. We lost it.


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rs -- i am so, so sorry, gal.  hug2.gif  


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RS, I'm so sorry.  It's so frustrating to get so close and then not have what you've been dreaming of.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.




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rs - I am so sorry. Take care of yourself, please. 

 

 

 

hopeful -- I know what you mean. We have a teenager and every time things get too teenager-y in my house, my wife and I have a conversation that goes "are you sure we want a baby? because babies turn into teenagers..." But kids are great, mostly, so I think it's worth it. 


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beta is 0....so just what i expected...im realky ok with it i thought this cycle was a wash from the start....now where the heck is AF ...im going for another intense acupuncture tomorrow...so af can you please please come now....this is a rare time i'm life that i'm begging you to show your face!!!!!!!!

rs so sorry...hang in there....

pokey...yay for those #s!!!!!

hopeful.....oh im a career nanny and i.am horrified at the way some kids act, and disrespect their parents, i look.at them and ask how does that happen......i hope and pray my 16yrs exp i will know better and i wont have those kind of kids .....but everyone says "just wait till they are yours 24/7!!!! i have a friend who was a nanny for yrs and had her own kid ..and forgot everything she ever knew....like she had never been around a baby before....and her sin who is now 4.....is that kid and she is that parent ....i pray that never happens to me or dp ( who also nannies)

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Rs, I second MrsandMrs- please take care of yourself. Whatever that looks like is totally fine. If it means screaming into your pillow or out loud or having a breakdown and crying or drinking a bottle of wine or eating a shit ton of chocolate cake, it's totally fine to feel what you are feeling. Please, just let yourself feel it and if you are numb, that's okay too and if you are mad and in that madness you make someone else mad, please forgive yourself. Where you are is where you are. I know I speak for everyone here when I say that we are all sending you so much love right now. Wish I could reach through the screen and give you a big, big hug. hug2.gif


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Cananny--That is what you were expecting but still sorry to hear it.  But seriously, what is up with AF?!  Geesh!  Let a new cycle begin already!  These women need to move on.  I hope the acupuncture goes well.




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RS, so sorry...

 


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RS:  I'm so very sorry. Hugs from across the miles to you and DW grouphug.gif

 

Cananny: What do you think your doctor will say is the next step for you guys? Maybe all of us here can do something that seems so counterintuitive and collectively pray that AF visits you real soon. Oh, thanks for stepping up to be threadkeeper for April. I will send you a pm with all the details in the next day. You will be great.

 

 


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Side note

 

Re office called and said that usually takes anywhere from 7 days to 2 weeks for AF to come after stopping meds.. geez... i am cramping a ton tonight.. so i think she "might" be on her way...

 

 

 

 


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RS11~ I am so sorry for your loss...candle.gif. Hugs hug2.gif to you and dp.

 

 

 

Cananny~ Hope that AF is on her way. I am not a nanny, but I totally get the hoping that doesn't turn into me or my kid.

 

 

Junebug~ Yeah for great beta numbers.

 

AFM~ Nothing new...went back to work ...today was my Monday and tomorrow will be my Friday. Then off for a few days and I'm taking out of town for her b-day to just enjoy each other and have fun hanging out. I have had a few hot flashes, but that's it...no pinching, or cramping or anything. But it is still way early...specially since I am on 100mg of PIO per day...I'm sure all kind of symptoms will pop up here soon. Okay...I;m headed to bed.  sleepytime.gif

 

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I'm so sorry, rs hug2.gif Hang in there...this is a bumpy road sometimes.

 


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Hey everyone, thanks for all the good wishes. We thought we were prepared for the news; we shouldn't have expected anything else with that low beta, but we were still praying for a miracle. We're both pretty devastated. What surprises me is how angry I am; SO many people get pregnant at the drop of a hat, and then this happens to us. I'm probably not going to be around much for the next few days.

 

We're going to try again this cycle. Hopefully, we'll have better news next month.

 

I do have a question, and if anyone know the answer I'd be grateful. They said this wasn't likely to happen again even though I have PCOS, but if it did, would that mean there's something wrong with my eggs and we would need IVF?

 

Sorry there's no personals. I don't have the energy right now.


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rs, I'm so sorry. Thinking about you both.


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Hey everyone, thanks for all the good wishes. We thought we were prepared for the news; we shouldn't have expected anything else with that low beta, but we were still praying for a miracle. We're both pretty devastated. What surprises me is how angry I am; SO many people get pregnant at the drop of a hat, and then this happens to us. I'm probably not going to be around much for the next few days.

 

We're going to try again this cycle. Hopefully, we'll have better news next month.

 

I do have a question, and if anyone know the answer I'd be grateful. They said this wasn't likely to happen again even though I have PCOS, but if it did, would that mean there's something wrong with my eggs and we would need IVF?

 

Sorry there's no personals. I don't have the energy right now.



I'm sorry again :( I don't know the stats...but I do have my own experiences. I had 3 miscarriages before DD - there was nothing "wrong" with me. My pregnancy with DD was amazing with no complications at all. There is no reason to think you can't have a perfectly healthy pregnancy after an early m/c. There are so many stats out there...m/c are VERY common...especially early ones. Also, if it's any consolation, it is believed that you are extra fertile right after a m/c so your odds are ever better. Take care and heal well.


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rs11--I second Carmen's response. Miscarriages are more common than what you might expect--after my first one, I had SO many people come out of the woodwork with their own stories. I personally think even more occur than what statistics say because people are either staying quiet or do not even know they had one because of how early it occurred. Hang in there and hold out hope that you could be one of the lucky ones that gets pregnant right after an early loss because your body is already in the "pregnancy mode". BUT...keep in mind that even if you don't, it doesn't mean that something is wrong with you--you just haven't found the right egg yet to produce your perfect baby! hug.gif

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rs- Chiming in to repeat what everyone else has said- it's totally normal. I had an early loss the first time I got pregnant, and my pregnancy with DD was so amazingly easy and low-risk. I know how much it sucks to feel like, "Oh, we had it!" and then to lose it. I'm really sorry. Big hugs.

 

Cananny- Sending hopes for AF's arrival so that you can get on with things!

 

Hopeful- I actually had to limit my exposure to kids while I was TTC the first time. Not because I got jealous of all those fertile people, but rather because I kept getting freaked out that I was voluntarily bringing one of those things (um, children) upon myself! The good news is that, for me anyway, having my own kid has been totally different than watching someone else's. Obviously I get worn out/fed up sometimes, but I also have this love for her that makes it all so worthwhile. In any case, totally normal!

 

AFM, I think we finally settled on a new donor. Did you guys know you can get gay donors now from a sperm bank now?!? That wasn't an option when we were TTCing before (not at our bank, anyway), and we were delighted to discover that it now is. Bring on the gaybies! I have an appointment on Monday at the fertility clinic. I'm feeling a little nervous- our last doctor was super queer friendly, but didn't take our insurance. This clinic is actually the only place my insurance will pay for, so I'm hoping it's okay. I'm right in the middle of my cycle now, and we're hoping to inseminate next cycle. A month feels like a long time to wait, but that's okay.

 

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Everytime our DD is throwing one of her tantrums or is in one of her oh-so-fun toddler "moods," we think, Do we really want another one???  lol.  But still, the sweet moments and watching her develop is SO worth it.  Like this morning on the way out the door, DD spotted the small strawberry plant with 2 tiny strawberries and she was EXTREMELY excited about it:  "Daddy!  You have 2 strawberries!  Your strawberries are growing!  TODAYYY!  It's spring!"  And then she gave extra hugs and kisses to him and was in a good mood when I dropped her off at daycare.  Makes me totally forget about how upset I was about her spitting out corn and refusing to swallow at dinner last night...........


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esenbee- Cute story! Is your DP trans? My partner is ftm, and I love connecting with other trans couples in the south! (We live in NC.)


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rs -  i am so, so sorry to read this news.  sending grouphug.gif your way.  i agree with the others that this isn't an indication your eggs are bad or that you'll need IVF.  i think early miscarriages happen way more often than we know.

 

cananny - hope AF shows soon.  she's always MIA when you want her, and right there when you dont!

 

angela - how cool to be able to use a gay donor! hope your appointment goes smoothly on monday.

 

esenbee - such a sweet story! *melt*

 

 

 


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angela - If we're not pregnant with this cycle, we're switching to TSBC for our next cycle, and I already picked out a donor who's some kind of queer. I realized that they list donors as "cannot be shipped to NY" if they have a sexual history that includes men. I'm not all about "engineering a perfect child" but I love the idea of keeping the queer genes alive. 


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We had our first RE appointment since 2010 when our original plan was reciprocal surrogacy. Our Dr. moved and we were taken by another Dr. in the practice. I was a little nervous because I have never had a male Dr. before. Well, the Dr. turned out to be absolutely fabulous. Listened to everything we had to say and asked what we thought about everything he wanted to do during the cycle. He seemed very accommodating and had an easy personality. DSp and I were very impressed.

If it doesn't work out this cycle, we will be having a Hysterosalpingogram to check for blockage of the fallopian tubes and then the following cycle, try a letrozole/Femara cycle, with a trigger shot.

We are pretty happy with our appointment.

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I need to vent here.. i cant IRL...

 

DP and I have close friends who we spend a fair amount of time with and DP is their daughter's nanny 3x a week.. so we are pretty close... our friends do not really get along that well.. even sleeping in different rooms.. they fight a lot... we love them dearly.. but they have a lot of stuff they need to work out...

well today they got a BFP.. they have it so easy .. and got pregnant on 1st try...  I knew i would take it hard.. but i am taking it extremely hard.. i had a lot of tears.. and this hurt more than my own BFN :(

I dont want to see them or hang out . or know anything about their pregnancy.. i even said something so mean to my DP.. I love them.. but this is really unfair :( 

 

how am i supposed to get through this :(


Loving life with our triplet boys born Feb 24th 2013 at 34 weeks biggrinbounce.gif

 

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