I have always, since I was a teenager, wanted to adopt a child from a "third world" country, but once I actually did research on it I assumed it would be impossible for us as a queer couple. But I still want to do it! Plus, Jillian Micheals did it so I know it can be done! Has anyone looked into to, or actually been able to do it successfully? My partner volunteered at on orphanage in Africa for a while and some single women were able to adopt there, but it is a long process. I don't know that we would be willing/able to pretend to be straight, I think that is the only way to do it as far as I know. Anyway...has anyone done this/know of anyone who has? We are starting to think about kiddo #2 and I just want to explore all my options.
RStelle - My understanding is the same as yours -- that one of you might have to pretend to be a straight single woman for the purposes of the other country's adoption rules. Sorry I don't know more. But here's something I pasted from the Massachusetts Adoption Resource Exchange:
If you are interested in learning more about either domestic infant or international adoptions, please contact the Adoption Community of New England, Inc. (ACONE) at (508) 366-6812. This non-profit organization offers events and programs throughout the year for all those touched by adoption, including an annual conference that takes place in Massachusetts every spring.
... due in late June.